Jan. 23, 2024
Music
In this week's episode, we discussed the power of music and its associative nature with relationships. We talked about our shared experiences on early morning rides to school, the music that we listened to, and how this led to developing my musical taste. These experiences helped curate my understanding of likes and dislikes as well as my current perception of music. Join us for a discussion on music and more here at a Record of My Father.
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Hello and welcome back to
another episode of a record of
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my final.
Here we are today.
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I think we're going to talk
about music for a little bit,
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and a little bit is being
exactly 34 minutes and 58
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seconds.
So what do you?
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What do you think about music?
Only got 34 minutes in here, 58
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seconds to talk about it.
I don't know what the.
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Hell to say, you better hurry
up.
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Not enough time.
You better.
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Just start like spitting it all
out.
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Let me think, what was my
earliest song that I listened to
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That and I would have to say it
was probably in first grade and
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it was Sugar Sugar by The
Archies playing my Candy Girl,
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whatever the hell it is.
I don't remember.
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That's my voice.
Yeah, I'm definitely.
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I'm definitely Lady Gaga.
We're going in karaoke soon
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enough, but when she's.
Asleep we're.
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Only talking about in the high
when you were to high school,
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there was a band and it was such
a bizarre band.
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Too well, I think the and when I
was in middle school, it was a
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when I was in Ripon Middle
School, there was our arch
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enemy, which was Fred and Lynn
Middle School and Aerosmith
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played there.
That's crazy.
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That played for a dance and that
would have been like 69 or 7,
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you know, right around there.
And that was when they were
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like, you know, they played at a
high, at A at a middle school
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dance.
And I was just like, wow.
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Well, that was like Jim Croce as
well.
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And Jim Croce played at a let's
see, it was in New York high
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school, yeah.
And I remember talking to a
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woman that went to the the ACDC
concert and she's like, I saw
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him play when I was in high
school.
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Isn't that crazy in?
The middle of yeah.
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And just the whole like, wow.
I mean, I think about musicians
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if I ever met any, the ones that
have touched me through the
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years.
I don't think I've met any
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really.
I've met one well.
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The coolest, well, the neatest
thing that I ever did was
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probably going to the Cat
Stevens that you and I and your
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mother went to.
Remember that.
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That was incredible.
Kennedy Center, that was.
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Just like unforgettable
experience, that was something.
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He has a voice and a way about
him that it exudes a feeling.
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And then when I was in, say it
from about eighth grade until
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11th grade, it's kind of one of
the few things that kept my head
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together.
You know, I was very, what do
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you want to call it?
Volatile.
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Crazy.
I did a lot of stuff.
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I got kicked out of school.
A lot of times I I I was first
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to action.
I was never someone to sit, but
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music is something that was just
sort of like, you know, I mean,
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you know, you hear it all the
time where it says call them the
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beast and it's like and it and
it does, it makes you feel
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better but also it amps you up.
I mean, I.
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I remember rewarding thing too
in your brain as well and that
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that's how it's used is that it
rewards your your serotonin
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level when you listen to music.
Well, it can also go the other
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way, 'cause I remember I worked
as a doorman at Georgetown in a
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club called Garrett's.
And I remember it was like 1145.
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And the and the and the guy put
on, and this is when we had
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cassettes and he puts in LA
Woman and that starts, and then
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everybody just starts jumping.
And then the owner happens to be
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there drinking beer with one of
his friends on a Friday night
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for whatever stupid reason.
And he goes over and he goes,
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you started it too soon.
Didn't know what that meant.
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Within 20 minutes, fights broke
out.
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I mean, just people.
Just randomly, yeah.
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One woman that that was the
night that the woman got hit in
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the forehead.
With the the.
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Pint glass and which I always
thought weird, but there was
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this, like Marines got in a
fight and somebody else got.
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I mean, it was just stupid.
Shit, that woman is not a song
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that I think that people would
fight.
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I wouldn't think so either, but
it was.
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Like Murphy's?
Yeah, OK.
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No, but it's a driving song that
that drives people and wakes
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them up and makes them it it it
boosts your the.
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Bass line in that song is very,
very.
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Oh my God it.
Boosts your.
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And it made people literally
they were doing the what do you
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call it when you see the I've
I've never been to a punk show.
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I should probably go to a punk
show where they jump up and down
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and I and and the bar is as many
people can fit in a room as big
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as this room.
I as big as a place see where
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you are right now.
Put 100 people in there, elbow
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to elbow with the bar at one end
and then another bar at the
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other end, a stairwell in the
middle, a side little room
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there.
I can tell the story about that
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where the woman went in there
and peed in the sink and that
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that was a great, that was
always that was a funny story,
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you know, and this was this was
that night.
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I mean, there was like so many
things that just went absolutely
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crazy.
There were other crazy things.
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But and then you told me she's
like, why am I getting kicked
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now?
I don't.
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I don't know what I mean.
I know she went in there and she
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said there's like a long lady
rolling to the ladies room,
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'cause I think everybody was
snorting coke in there at that
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time.
And it's like I I I can't, I'm
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not going to go to take their
coke, you know, and it's like
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figure it out.
And so she went into the room
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where we food off.
It's offshoot of the kitchen and
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there was a little sink in there
and.
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She pops up.
On the sink.
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And I'm going like, don't do
that.
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If you do that, I got to throw
you out.
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I can't help it.
And I just like, whatever.
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And then I go to throw her out.
Everybody.
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I can't believe you're doing
that.
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You're just a bastard.
And I'm like.
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You're such a misogynist, yeah.
Whatever.
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Whatever.
You know, if a guy had done it,
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I would have kicked him out too.
No, exactly.
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Pissing on her sink, On her
freaking pots and pans.
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No, no, no, no, no.
That's where we wash.
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The freaking pots and pans?
Well, this is probably a wake up
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call for many.
Well, I don't want to Garrison.
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That night, I think we just
served them, Hey, we're not
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going to charge you for the
special sauce.
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Oh, oh, Oh my gosh, whatever.
What music are you?
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Talking about music, I forgot
what music?
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Are you listening to these days?
What do you What do?
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You mean I still I I love, you
know, a long way to the top of
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rock'n'roll.
I love A/C, DCI, listen to the
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same songs.
I listen to pop.
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I love Carly Rae Jepsen.
I love.
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I was thinking about, I haven't
heard any Taylor songs.
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I want to go grab a Taylor song
and listen to that.
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That is just like a driven, fun
I, I, I could absolutely be one
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of those.
What are the floozies?
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What do they call them?
Floozies.
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No, no.
What are the people that follow
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her?
Swifties.
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Swifties.
Yeah, I'd be a Swifty, yeah.
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Yeah, that's.
It that was my guess, too.
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That was my Yeah, I'm a.
Swifty Man, I could be a Swifty
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I could.
Be a floozie, too.
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I didn't know that you listened
to her music.
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I would.
I haven't.
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I haven't.
I've heard a few of like the
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songs on the radio and I liked
them and I said, hey, I'm going
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to buy one was.
It the image, it's just the
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image city.
Well, I mean my house.
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I remember you laughing when I
when I when I bought that, and
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then my house.
What's another 1B?
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ANNANNANNANNY?
Whatever.
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It would be Gwen Stefani.
Gwen Stefani.
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I love that.
Who doesn't love Gwen Stefani?
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Hollaback Girl, no doubt was
also incredible as well when she
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was in.
There, Hollaback Girl is just
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whoa, you know?
And then there's two or three
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songs from from both Van Halen's
that are really good, you know?
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How dare you like I like them
both.
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You like Dan Hagar, man?
I like you.
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Like Dan Hagar, huh?
Yeah, yeah.
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I think that this meeting is
adjourned that we need to.
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He did 5150, man.
Which we're not doing this right
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now anymore.
Wait, I'm not a van.
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OK, Right now is a really good
song, OK.
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I do like right now.
I do like right?
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Now you know and you listen to
but I.
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Didn't say that you didn't hear
it from me and.
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What was the one where David Lee
Roth is looking over into the
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abyss and he lost a few friends
there?
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It's not just jump, it's on
jump.
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No, I love jump.
I used to listen to that.
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It's not Panama either.
And and now when I was in
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college, MTV one year when I was
at ODU.
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He made the music video, You
know that.
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Oh yeah, I saw.
That the whole modern conception
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of the music video.
He he did the backward flip and
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you would see Eddie playing and
when he saw his it, to me it was
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just it was magic.
How fast and how exacting he
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could move his hands up and down
the guitar and you just look at
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that.
You're just like, you know that
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to me is that's freaking
Beethoven on a guitar.
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You know, just because the
movement to move from the top to
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the bottom and to to stretch and
just, you know, I just love
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that.
I mean, I love that.
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I've seen that in Billy Idol's
guitar when they were doing
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Rebel Yell and you saw the
guitarist and he flips the
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guitar behind his back and he
catches it and he and he just
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goes crazy.
Of course, Prince, you can't
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anything.
My heart is gently weeping.
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It's everybody's seen that and
you.
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Yeah, that was that just.
I mean, you just go like, what
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an amazing musician.
Or Stevie Ray Vaughan, voodoo
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child.
When you see him play and he's
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playing and he breaks guitar
strings while he's doing a rift,
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he switches to the other guitar
strings.
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A guy comes on stage UN hitches
his guitar, re hitches the new
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one and he jumps and keeps
going.
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What the?
That's not human.
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That's just or or that's
somebody that that they have a.
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There are people that have
talent and and don't like go
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after it, but he's a person that
they said.
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Just like as soon as he finished
his show, he goes sitting in his
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in his limo, waiting to go to
the next thing or going.
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To.
The and he'd be playing that.
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Stevie Ray Vaughan he'd be
playing the guitar and it's like
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when you look at the people and
and Eddie Van Halen was the same
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way.
I mean I remember Sammy Hagar
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when he I wrote it.
They read a piece about when he
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showed up at his house to to to
audition, and he said they're
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all sitting there drinking beer
and smoking cigars in the garage
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or smoking cigarettes in the
garage and Eddie Van Halen is
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just playing the guitar.
Yeah, he never stopped.
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You know, he just never stopped.
Well, that's what he would do as
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well as he would sit in his room
for long hours and just like
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because that's what he found to
be most interesting.
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That passion is a really, really
cool thing to see.
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When you see how they put it
into something that's and and
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that that's what people Voice
said about me.
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They said I have that passion
when it comes to the businesses
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that I've been in and the things
that you know, when I believe
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something, I believe it or I
don't, you know, so I have that,
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I'm they.
Say that you're the Eddie Van
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Halen of the SEC law firm.
There you go.
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I, I, I would love to say that I
was something like that, but
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that ain't there's a lot.
Yeah, there's a lot of brilliant
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people.
But anyway.
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Anyway, I like that other music.
What was it?
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But what about silence?
Because when you're in the car
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for the longest time, I think
when I turned 1615 or 16, you
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just stopped listening to music
in the call.
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Well, because The thing is, is
that to me, it was distracting
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when I'm with you because it's
like you're my kid and it's like
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I don't have and and remember,
it may not have seemed like a
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long time to you, but I went to
work at 7:00 in the morning and
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I didn't get home until 6:00 at
9:00.
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No, I remember.
And that was Monday through
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Friday.
And then on on weekends, A lot
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of times I was going to bed at
9:00 on Saturday so I can get up
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at 3:30 Sunday freaking morning
and make it to the airport by
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5:00 so I could Peck, catch a
flight, and go set up a freaking
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booth on the other side of in
Chicago or Texas or California
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or New York.
No, I remember.
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So it was like I had to focus my
time on you.
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But remember our songs?
Oh my God, what was it?
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Jay Giles Band.
We listened to Centerfolds maybe
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1000 times, maybe 1000 times.
In the pickup truck, I swear
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everyday.
What were you in 3rd grade?
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Something like that.
That's why I actually do a music
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face.
You and I was really called into
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that.
Well, she's the greatest because
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she.
Had she had the playlist?
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She has this wide diverse and
see that's what another thing
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that sort of turned me on about
her is the fact that she likes
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she loved all that stuff from
the 80s.
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The silky whatever the heck and
all that and and I never tried
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anything.
All the music that I've ever
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done most of it with the
exception of very, very few
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pieces have been you know my
brother was a member of the
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Columbia Lighthouse.
Not.
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No not for the blind Columbia
Columbia Records.
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They used to do 12 records for a
penny and you would get those
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and then you'd have to buy the
rest of the albums, that regular
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album prices, which are 699 and
you could buy them in the store
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for 299, but you buy them for
the six.
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So they made money that way.
And but it also was an instant
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record collection, a dozen
albums and he had like Sly and
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the Family Stone everyday.
People I remember.
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Listening to that, he
satisfaction the original.
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What the heck was it original?
Rolling Stones?
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What was that one song?
What was the one that No
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Satisfaction?
The original 64 album I
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remember.
So the album.
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What's his name on the front
with that funny look?
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Who else there were?
There were just so many
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different Those are the two that
really stick out at me.
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The Sly and the family Stone.
Rolling Stones.
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What was that album that you had
by the A Strange?
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European band?
Oh, you mean?
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Like it was one.
It was it was like a Harry or
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something.
Rancid.
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No, no, that was.
Yeah, I got.
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I heard that one.
Song by them.
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And it was so I've never heard.
And it it sounds so strange.
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Well, it's not like Alan Parsons
project is.
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It no, no, no, no, no.
It's more it's way I said it's.
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I love that.
That was my that was my breakup
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album.
Oh my.
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God, yeah.
You ever do that when you?
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Break up, listen to this album
around that time, I'm gonna say.
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That when somebody breaks your
heart, you go and you try to
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like mend it, you try to figure
out ways to do it.
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Music is 1 great way, but you
know all the songs are like, Oh
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my life is all about you, you
know, Which is sort of stupid.
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But at the same time, I mean for
me in particular, I would
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exercise and I would listen to
songs and so I would get an
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album and I remember my my my
early break up when I was in my
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teens was I would put an album
on.
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I do setups.
Yeah.
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And I would do until one side
was done.
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I remember, I remember The
Doobie Brothers, the Captain and
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me.
I would do that album.
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I would do I robot both sides
the album.
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Great album.
I would do, yeah.
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Todd Rundgren, A Wizard of True
Star.
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That's an amazing album.
I have that one.
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Amazing.
I have that one.
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Oh my God.
I had all these and I got rid of
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them for some stupid reason.
What was the other one?
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CDs or the the Future?
No, I didn't, you know, the wife
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had all the music in the world
and and I and I and music had
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really started to play a back
seat to my life then.
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So I didn't, I didn't.
I had it all the time, and I
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played it all the time when I
was in the car.
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And the only time I play it loud
is when I'm trying to annoy the
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person next to me in the car,
'cause they're pissing me off.
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And so, I mean, it's real more.
It's more of a sword than a
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soothe, I would say.
A sword than a soothe.
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Yeah, that's going.
That's going to get our new
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merchandise thing online coming
up soon.
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I I come up with that stuff all
the time.
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I'm, I'm, I'm the most person,
the most full of shit marketing
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person you'll ever find.
Or.
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The most person marketing shit.
There's a market interesting.
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Nothing like that.
I got in the vinyl ones.
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You just throw all that stuff
out there.
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Yeah.
I, I, I'm, I'm great at pithy
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statements that encompass things
that people go, wow, that sounds
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really cool.
Just don't analyze it too much.
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'Cause it's toning.
Have you used the record player
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in that room that you're in yet?
The the one that I show you how
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to use, I showed it.
I think I did with you.
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Yeah, I showed you how to use it
and.
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I don't think I've used it
since.
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Oh really?
Is it plugged into the?
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Yeah, I think it's plugged in.
I set off for you up there.
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Oh, OK.
Everything should work.
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I should put it on right now.
I'll listen to Frank Sinatra.
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I listen.
I like his.
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I mean, he does the I did it my
way.
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I love that song.
Or New York, NY I love that.
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I love that from Jay-Z as well.
Well, there was that strange man
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at the dump that was getting rid
of like.
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Oh my God, that was the craziest
thing in the world, 'cause I go
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to the dump and I'm throwing out
cigar boxes, 'cause I I mean, I
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smoke cigars.
I probably smoke a box and a
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half a month.
I have like 50 cigar boxes, you
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know, and they're all wooden and
they're made out of a, you know,
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cedar.
So they're kind of neat.
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And I try to give them away to
people and you take them and
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stores sell them and shit and I
don't care.
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I'm just like, I feel bad that I
don't get to reuse them.
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And so I'm, I'm taking them to
the dump and I've, I've got a
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ton of them.
And I see this guy next to me in
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this old freaking Fairlane at
Fairmont, Falmouth, whatever the
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weather was station wagon.
And he's in the back and he's
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talking and he's taking out
albums and I'm looking at them.
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I'm going like, he takes like a
big box full and he throws it in
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the dumpster, And I said, dude,
what are you doing?
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And he goes, I'm getting rid of
my albums because my girlfriend
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said it's either them or me.
And I think if she throws them
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out, she's going to throw me out
too.
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And so and I was like, and I was
like, and I'm looking at them
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and I and I'm holding cigar
boxes.
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He goes, why in the world would
you throw that away?
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And so and I'm going like cigar
boxes, man.
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I smoke and I got like 50 of my
don't know what to do with them.
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And he goes, well, I'll take
them.
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And I said, well, I want your
albums And he goes, would you
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want to look at them?
I said, no, I'll take every
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single one.
You sure you don't want to look
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at them?
There's a lot of show tunes and
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stuff in there.
And I was like, is he gay?
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Is he coming on to me?
He's like, you know, that's what
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I thought at first.
Yeah, that's that means, I mean.
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Whatever, you know.
But yet he has.
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Like Andy Williams, he has all
of these every K.
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Harry Belafonte I remember Harry
Belafonte.
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That sounds really good too.
Wow.
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Sonny, son of a preacher man.
Who is that?
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Dusty Springfield.
Dusty Springfield Oh my God.
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He's got like everything from
the 60s.
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I was just like, holy crap.
And a lot of late 50s had Lena
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Horne had. 50s as.
Well, yeah, I mean, there were
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just amazing.
Stuff.
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A lot of TV show stuff too,
yeah.
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And we still haven't.
We still haven't do that Well,
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I.
Think that that's kind of what
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the whole the whole thing was
back then, that that's where
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albums kind of you know, you
need an idea and if you're going
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to play a song, well, people
realize that hey, if you have
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rock around the clock on a
television show, more people
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will watch it because.
There's something.
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That links to it.
And that was the early days of,
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you know, music in the
background, having people clap
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in the background in between,
and then having laugh tracks and
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all that other happy crap that
makes you believe that that it's
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something that you should watch.
And it's wonderful.
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Well, that's funny too, when
talking about airport music that
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was developed by kind of Brian
Eno.
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And then he was in a car crash,
right?
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And his friend comes in and puts
on an album and then wasn't it a
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high enough decibel?
It was like very low.
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And so he was listening to it
and he realized that music is as
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impactful at that level as it is
at a higher level, right.
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And that's why, really, if
you've ever listened to airport
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music, it's phenomenal.
Really.
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This is such a load decimal and
it's it's very very interesting.
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I don't know.
So then he developed.
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They play ACDC at the airport.
Come on.
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For ambient music, No ambient
music, but it was.
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It's really something, really
something.
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You got me.
You got me thinking now.
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I mean, I've heard elevator
music.
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That was really good.
Yeah, but that's the why it
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exists.
It's because of the whole idea
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and invention of NBA music.
Playing it, Yeah.
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Because you think about it, it's
like, how do you, how do you
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keep a large group calm?
And I mean, even I, I go back to
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that thing when the guy said you
started, you started the music
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too soon, 'cause what you're
supposed to do.
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And then what?
He said, he said you don't play
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music like that.
When bars closing at two, you,
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you start playing those songs at
12:45 to to about one, 'cause
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then you get everybody amped up.
So they they pound their last
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two or three drinks, they amp up
the money they put in.
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If they start pounding drinks at
11, they're going to be just
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knee walking drunk by two when
the bars when we're kicking you
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out, you know?
So it was like, you don't want
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them to really start pounding
drinks until like almost 1:00 in
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the morning, 'cause then they
got 30 minutes.
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And most people drink one or
two.
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And then usually you're trying
to throw them out like before 2
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and they're they're sitting
there with two, two beers or two
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beers.
Just 5 minutes ago.
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I can't believe you're throwing
me out.
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And it's on like last call was
30 minutes ago, so no, you
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didn't buy them 5 minutes ago.
You're just slow as shit.
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You're hanging out over here,
Gavin, and thinking that we're
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going to stay up all night
because we don't want to go home
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and that's just not going to
happen.
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No, it's not.
Leave.
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Get out.
No, I was never mean.
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I was I for the I I was like
almost in every instance I'm
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trying to think I I was never
like I'm there.
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It paid to be decent to people.
There were that, you know, or to
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give them alternatives, you
know, 'cause that was the whole
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the whole thing is like you,
you're dealing with somebody
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that's, you know, inebriated.
He might be on a little bit of
444
00:22:18,920 --> 00:22:22,840
speed, maybe a little cocaine, a
little this, little that.
445
00:22:22,840 --> 00:22:26,520
And so their mind is not, it's
not and and.
446
00:22:26,880 --> 00:22:30,280
And.
You're about, I mean, I there
447
00:22:30,280 --> 00:22:33,800
was rarely a day that I worked
there that I wasn't at least a
448
00:22:33,800 --> 00:22:37,120
third in the bag, you know,
'cause, I mean, I'd show up at
449
00:22:37,120 --> 00:22:41,120
8:00 and I had a bartender,
Brian, who was just this great
450
00:22:41,120 --> 00:22:45,800
guy, and he would do this.
He would, he'd swap his head
451
00:22:45,800 --> 00:22:50,840
like come here doggy, and he
would set a a little glass about
452
00:22:51,040 --> 00:22:54,640
this big full of Heaven Hill
bourbon.
453
00:22:55,480 --> 00:22:58,920
And he would set it on the par
and he would say it's your
454
00:22:58,920 --> 00:23:01,560
hourly.
And he would give me an hourly
455
00:23:01,560 --> 00:23:06,840
drink of bourbon, which is
about, I don't know, the shock,
456
00:23:07,600 --> 00:23:10,240
no, hell no.
Maybe.
457
00:23:10,240 --> 00:23:12,080
Maybe this much, maybe this
much.
458
00:23:12,080 --> 00:23:13,040
Maybe a little.
Less than this.
459
00:23:13,240 --> 00:23:18,200
Three fingers so you would chug
it and it was just enough that I
460
00:23:18,200 --> 00:23:23,920
could take it all in, you know,
Which sounds really sexual but
461
00:23:24,560 --> 00:23:27,520
wasn't meant to be anyway.
I mean, just enough because it
462
00:23:27,520 --> 00:23:32,840
was like when you look at a
glass, no, no, no ice and you go
463
00:23:32,840 --> 00:23:35,560
all the way to that little lip
around the top, it was just
464
00:23:35,560 --> 00:23:39,240
below that and it was just like.
And it.
465
00:23:39,280 --> 00:23:41,600
Was Heaven Hill, and everybody
used to it was rail bourbon.
466
00:23:41,600 --> 00:23:43,600
It was supposed to be.
Everybody talk about Heaven Hill
467
00:23:43,600 --> 00:23:45,520
being crap.
And I got to tell you, I love
468
00:23:45,520 --> 00:23:48,360
that bourbon.
I mean, for $3 a quart, it was
469
00:23:48,360 --> 00:23:52,080
great, $3 at 3:50, it might have
been four then.
470
00:23:52,080 --> 00:23:54,880
So prices rise.
Well, that's terrible.
471
00:23:55,400 --> 00:23:57,040
Yeah, it was really it was
really kind of good.
472
00:23:57,320 --> 00:24:00,040
But anyway, we're losing sight
of all the different musics.
473
00:24:00,160 --> 00:24:01,120
Are we?
Might.
474
00:24:01,160 --> 00:24:01,800
I'm.
I don't know.
475
00:24:01,800 --> 00:24:03,840
I think though, we're branching
out that we're discovering
476
00:24:03,840 --> 00:24:07,040
because music, if not, grabs
memories and we're talking about
477
00:24:07,160 --> 00:24:07,840
those.
Well, that's it.
478
00:24:07,840 --> 00:24:09,480
It's like, what song do you
remember?
479
00:24:09,480 --> 00:24:11,640
It's like, you know, my wedding
was Pacha Bell's Canon.
480
00:24:12,200 --> 00:24:18,480
I just when I hear that, I stop
and I can see my wife walking.
481
00:24:18,520 --> 00:24:21,600
Downs cannon.
Pocket bells, Cannon.
482
00:24:21,600 --> 00:24:22,960
I don't.
Think that's right.
483
00:24:22,960 --> 00:24:24,480
I think it.
Yeah, it's something like that.
484
00:24:24,480 --> 00:24:27,560
Mozart, whatever it it, I'll
find it and I'll.
485
00:24:27,560 --> 00:24:28,920
Send it to you, Cannon Symphony,
or.
486
00:24:29,120 --> 00:24:30,320
Something it's probably that
too.
487
00:24:30,640 --> 00:24:32,640
I don't know.
But I every time I hear it, I
488
00:24:32,640 --> 00:24:34,760
know what it is, I know what it
sounds like.
489
00:24:35,240 --> 00:24:38,320
Then it just it just moves me,
you know?
490
00:24:38,320 --> 00:24:41,000
Cuz that's when I remember
seeing her and my brother hadn't
491
00:24:41,000 --> 00:24:42,320
gotten there yet.
And that was funny.
492
00:24:42,600 --> 00:24:44,120
We.
Can link the the song in the,
493
00:24:44,120 --> 00:24:46,280
you know the.
Wedding was interesting too.
494
00:24:46,280 --> 00:24:48,640
I can go down.
I can run the stories down.
495
00:24:48,880 --> 00:24:52,640
We're going to link the song.
You can't go in until the, the
496
00:24:52,800 --> 00:24:57,640
until the until the group's
mother gets here.
497
00:25:01,360 --> 00:25:03,160
By the hell my Oh my.
My my mother was 1/2 an hour
498
00:25:03,160 --> 00:25:05,840
late.
In the oh, I I remember hearing
499
00:25:05,880 --> 00:25:09,800
this.
Yeah, it's that was well she
500
00:25:09,800 --> 00:25:11,440
had.
She had to do the wash, man.
501
00:25:11,440 --> 00:25:15,680
She had to put the laundry in
that.
502
00:25:15,760 --> 00:25:19,680
That is exactly what she said.
Well, I had to put a wash in and
503
00:25:19,680 --> 00:25:23,080
I'm just like, I didn't even bat
an eye.
504
00:25:23,920 --> 00:25:25,680
Well, she was unstable at this
point, wasn't she?
505
00:25:26,600 --> 00:25:27,440
I don't know.
I don't.
506
00:25:27,440 --> 00:25:28,120
I don't.
I don't know.
507
00:25:28,200 --> 00:25:30,040
I mean, she might have been a
little bit, but.
508
00:25:31,160 --> 00:25:33,640
That means if you look at that.
No, No, she did not.
509
00:25:34,160 --> 00:25:37,640
She she was.
She did not think that anybody
510
00:25:37,640 --> 00:25:40,640
that married her sons was good
enough.
511
00:25:41,200 --> 00:25:44,200
No, she's just that way.
She was never going to accept
512
00:25:44,200 --> 00:25:46,000
her.
Valerie, she was never going to.
513
00:25:46,000 --> 00:25:48,680
She never accepted my brothers
and their wives.
514
00:25:48,840 --> 00:25:51,680
She never accepted any of them.
So that that that was just her
515
00:25:51,680 --> 00:25:53,960
thing.
You know, I, you know, they were
516
00:25:53,960 --> 00:25:57,520
taking us away from her.
And I guess that's a hard thing.
517
00:25:57,520 --> 00:25:59,920
You know, at some point you're
going to get married and you
518
00:25:59,920 --> 00:26:01,880
know.
And if and if she turns into be
519
00:26:01,880 --> 00:26:05,960
that way, then I will point to
her that they should be
520
00:26:05,960 --> 00:26:06,960
accepted.
I don't.
521
00:26:07,440 --> 00:26:08,920
Actually.
No, but she's not that kind of
522
00:26:08,920 --> 00:26:11,440
person, you know what I mean?
She's not vindictive.
523
00:26:11,640 --> 00:26:14,960
Yeah, and there's also like the
the home life was we were
524
00:26:14,960 --> 00:26:16,440
protection, so.
Yeah.
525
00:26:17,000 --> 00:26:19,920
We're protection from the old
man, so when as we go away,
526
00:26:20,120 --> 00:26:24,920
she's still there and you know,
there's one less body between me
527
00:26:25,040 --> 00:26:26,480
and him.
No.
528
00:26:27,880 --> 00:26:30,200
Exactly the good old days,
weren't they?
529
00:26:30,240 --> 00:26:33,680
Just so wonderful.
Yeah, yeah, I think I should
530
00:26:33,680 --> 00:26:36,600
beat you or something.
I I think a little bit more.
531
00:26:36,640 --> 00:26:38,280
I think you might have missed
the train.
532
00:26:38,640 --> 00:26:40,880
I think it's too late.
Though I think it's way too late
533
00:26:40,880 --> 00:26:41,440
now.
You might.
534
00:26:41,560 --> 00:26:44,080
You probably hit me back.
That, yeah.
535
00:26:44,080 --> 00:26:47,880
That wouldn't be probably that.
Song Would I hit you back too
536
00:26:47,880 --> 00:26:49,320
though?
Yeah, it's my.
537
00:26:51,080 --> 00:26:54,200
Way to hell.
I used to sing ACD Scene
538
00:26:54,200 --> 00:26:55,040
concert.
You remember?
539
00:26:55,400 --> 00:26:58,760
That Yeah, me and you, Yeah.
That song, Highway to Hell.
540
00:26:58,840 --> 00:27:03,040
My mother used to drive me to
work when I worked at Newton
541
00:27:03,040 --> 00:27:06,800
Asphalt.
Every morning at 6:00, 6/15, she
542
00:27:06,800 --> 00:27:12,120
would go and drop me off over in
Springfield and then she would
543
00:27:12,120 --> 00:27:13,720
drive over to the other side of
Springfield.
544
00:27:13,720 --> 00:27:16,440
She dropped me off at Van Dorn
Street right in there, and then
545
00:27:16,440 --> 00:27:21,360
turn around and drive and like
my God, I would say one day a
546
00:27:21,360 --> 00:27:24,120
week we were late.
It was just mind numbing 'cause
547
00:27:24,120 --> 00:27:26,760
she was.
She's a a fiddler.
548
00:27:27,520 --> 00:27:30,480
Always fiddling around.
Oh no, I I think we need to.
549
00:27:30,880 --> 00:27:32,880
We need to.
This glass is dirty.
550
00:27:33,240 --> 00:27:35,160
No, no.
Oh, oh, no.
551
00:27:35,160 --> 00:27:37,120
This is we.
We need to charge this.
552
00:27:38,240 --> 00:27:41,200
There's dirty dishes in the sink
I can't leave.
553
00:27:41,360 --> 00:27:44,360
And you're just like I if I'm
not there by 7:00, I get fired.
554
00:27:45,960 --> 00:27:47,000
Do you?
Do you not I mean?
555
00:27:47,000 --> 00:27:49,200
What is the world doing?
You a favor by God?
556
00:27:49,760 --> 00:27:53,760
Well, no, no, no, I 'cause I
over and over and over kept
557
00:27:53,760 --> 00:27:57,640
saying I'll do no, no, it's it's
a waste and it's good and we
558
00:27:57,680 --> 00:27:59,520
should do this and it's bond
and.
559
00:27:59,520 --> 00:28:01,840
She's oh, she wanted to do it,
Yeah.
560
00:28:01,960 --> 00:28:04,560
Yeah.
So I was like, I I kept doing
561
00:28:04,560 --> 00:28:08,360
this because she needed that
psycho stuff.
562
00:28:08,360 --> 00:28:09,720
But it was great.
I remember her.
563
00:28:10,040 --> 00:28:13,800
She would, she would play that
every morning, 'cause she had a
564
00:28:14,360 --> 00:28:16,800
she had the cassette or yeah,
she had the cassette and would
565
00:28:16,800 --> 00:28:19,400
play Highway to Hell, and we'd
listen to that and we're just
566
00:28:19,800 --> 00:28:22,920
going down the road at about 9
miles an hour.
567
00:28:22,960 --> 00:28:26,120
And that's all 'cause that's all
the traffic was so freaking
568
00:28:26,120 --> 00:28:27,520
terrible in.
Springfield.
569
00:28:28,320 --> 00:28:30,000
Well, no.
You'd start in Woodbridge and
570
00:28:30,000 --> 00:28:34,000
you'd go route one and route
one, then went on to 95 N and 95
571
00:28:34,000 --> 00:28:40,600
N, went to I guess 495 towards
Baltimore.
572
00:28:41,680 --> 00:28:44,920
And then your first exit was Van
Dorn St. and she looped down
573
00:28:44,920 --> 00:28:47,320
there, Get over.
You had to get over the railroad
574
00:28:47,320 --> 00:28:50,280
tracks before the train came to
drop me off because the train
575
00:28:50,280 --> 00:28:53,080
came through at like 7:00 in the
morning and that was the asphalt
576
00:28:53,080 --> 00:28:55,120
train.
And if she missed that, then I'd
577
00:28:55,120 --> 00:28:56,960
be late for work.
And then it'd be like go to the
578
00:28:56,960 --> 00:28:58,520
job site and it's like we hate
you.
579
00:28:58,600 --> 00:29:02,400
And it was just very, very.
It's like we hate you.
580
00:29:02,400 --> 00:29:03,040
Yeah.
Oh my God.
581
00:29:03,760 --> 00:29:06,160
You know, did you ever?
Listen to music on the job site.
582
00:29:11,400 --> 00:29:13,120
That's all.
I see people with these wireless
583
00:29:13,120 --> 00:29:14,600
speakers.
No.
584
00:29:15,320 --> 00:29:17,680
Well, The thing is, is like
asphalt, you're you're on the
585
00:29:17,680 --> 00:29:21,000
road and you're on, you're on a
machine, you're on a machine
586
00:29:21,000 --> 00:29:25,520
that's 120 decibels that it
blows your ears out, OK.
587
00:29:25,520 --> 00:29:28,800
And you're grinding the asphalt.
If you're, if you're laying it,
588
00:29:28,800 --> 00:29:32,360
you're moving so fast that
you're at a, you're at a brisk
589
00:29:32,360 --> 00:29:34,800
walk pace.
So you would need to and then
590
00:29:35,120 --> 00:29:37,560
there wasn't power.
Then we're talking 8182,
591
00:29:37,560 --> 00:29:40,160
something like that.
So it wasn't the same when I did
592
00:29:40,320 --> 00:29:44,320
concrete.
When I did concrete we would
593
00:29:46,320 --> 00:29:50,040
you're working in one location
but there were houses all around
594
00:29:50,040 --> 00:29:51,560
you.
So you're always like cognizant
595
00:29:51,560 --> 00:29:54,120
of, you know, you got a pee and
if they didn't have a Dons,
596
00:29:54,120 --> 00:29:57,480
Johnny had to go find a Bush
and, you know, try to stay out
597
00:29:57,480 --> 00:30:00,800
of people's view so the
neighbors wouldn't be pissed off
598
00:30:00,800 --> 00:30:03,600
that you're, you know, pissing
the back fencers, whatever.
599
00:30:03,920 --> 00:30:05,360
And.
He's out there flanking his
600
00:30:05,360 --> 00:30:07,920
winter and he's like, I gotta
pee, man, you know?
601
00:30:07,920 --> 00:30:10,440
And then if you had to go poo,
oh, God.
602
00:30:11,280 --> 00:30:13,160
Take the truck, man.
Go somewhere.
603
00:30:13,440 --> 00:30:16,200
Yeah, It was always the good old
days.
604
00:30:16,200 --> 00:30:17,720
And this is where music leads
us.
605
00:30:19,240 --> 00:30:21,000
I got all.
The.
606
00:30:21,800 --> 00:30:23,760
Yeah.
Well, I mean I got The thing is
607
00:30:23,760 --> 00:30:24,840
is like I just.
Relate.
608
00:30:25,200 --> 00:30:27,080
That's 3/4 of your life in a
sense.
609
00:30:27,120 --> 00:30:29,800
You spent 3/4 of your life in
the bathroom.
610
00:30:29,800 --> 00:30:33,800
My school.
That's where I do my best read.
611
00:30:35,760 --> 00:30:38,120
Yeah, but I don't, you know, I
don't listen to music in the
612
00:30:38,120 --> 00:30:40,000
bathroom.
I don't either.
613
00:30:40,800 --> 00:30:43,080
Yeah, I just never, never had
any desire.
614
00:30:43,080 --> 00:30:47,840
And like dinner time, I would
rather, unless I'm by myself, I
615
00:30:47,840 --> 00:30:50,680
don't play music, then it's
quiet most of the time.
616
00:30:50,680 --> 00:30:52,640
In the house we don't.
We don't play music.
617
00:30:52,640 --> 00:30:57,200
I only play music now when I'm
by myself and I'm and
618
00:30:57,800 --> 00:31:01,320
occasionally when a if I start
up the car and a song is good,
619
00:31:01,440 --> 00:31:04,240
when I'm driving the dogs to
walk, when I drop twice a day,
620
00:31:04,240 --> 00:31:07,560
it's like I I listen to the song
and maybe and then if it goes
621
00:31:07,560 --> 00:31:10,200
into the commercial craft then
I'm like screw that, I do.
622
00:31:10,200 --> 00:31:12,760
Every time I listen to my
Spotify playlist that I've been
623
00:31:12,760 --> 00:31:15,720
making since 2012, actually.
Well, every time I get in the
624
00:31:15,720 --> 00:31:19,640
car with you, you play music.
You won't leave the driveway or
625
00:31:19,640 --> 00:31:23,000
the wherever we are.
Until you start music, I won't.
626
00:31:23,000 --> 00:31:26,440
That's like your thing.
Yeah, I don't know why I do
627
00:31:26,560 --> 00:31:28,760
anything.
Valerie used to be a lot more
628
00:31:28,760 --> 00:31:32,960
like that and it and it's like
and she has this diverse.
629
00:31:33,240 --> 00:31:34,760
There might be a learned action
from her.
630
00:31:34,760 --> 00:31:36,240
Actually, it might be, yeah.
I think the the.
631
00:31:36,280 --> 00:31:38,800
Learned action is that you have
learned.
632
00:31:38,800 --> 00:31:42,880
Thankfully your musical taste
more from her, but also you
633
00:31:42,880 --> 00:31:46,000
broaden them like you listen to
country and you listen to yeah.
634
00:31:46,360 --> 00:31:47,480
You just don't listen to country
and.
635
00:31:47,480 --> 00:31:49,440
Williams Yeah, I do.
No, no, I do now.
636
00:31:49,720 --> 00:31:52,200
You do now, Yeah.
I never did before and I heard
637
00:31:52,200 --> 00:31:53,360
people talk.
It's so good.
638
00:31:53,360 --> 00:31:55,760
It's heartfelt, all this.
I'm like, Nah, it's hillbilly
639
00:31:55,760 --> 00:31:57,760
hit shit.
It's amazing.
640
00:31:57,760 --> 00:32:00,520
It's.
And yet I started listening to
641
00:32:00,520 --> 00:32:01,720
it and.
It's like now it.
642
00:32:01,880 --> 00:32:04,960
Touches me.
Well no, and the reason I do is
643
00:32:04,960 --> 00:32:10,280
because of you.
You have expanded and I bought
644
00:32:10,280 --> 00:32:13,360
songs.
I What's the one about the the
645
00:32:13,360 --> 00:32:17,120
really racist one about Japan?
That's not racist.
646
00:32:17,120 --> 00:32:18,720
Made in Japan is not racist at
all.
647
00:32:18,720 --> 00:32:22,560
Oh, OK With Buck Owens, it's
about a World War 2 veteran who
648
00:32:22,560 --> 00:32:24,760
marries a woman and then she's
already been arranged to be
649
00:32:24,760 --> 00:32:27,320
married in Japan.
And then he can't marry her
650
00:32:27,440 --> 00:32:28,840
because she's been arranged to
be married.
651
00:32:29,160 --> 00:32:30,040
What does he call her?
He.
652
00:32:31,280 --> 00:32:34,160
Doesn't call her anyway.
It's my Japanese something or
653
00:32:34,160 --> 00:32:39,400
other Lotus blossom or.
Refers to her as a woman.
654
00:32:39,400 --> 00:32:42,200
Like, I don't think that it has
any racial connotations to him.
655
00:32:42,560 --> 00:32:43,560
Oh, OK.
Yeah.
656
00:32:43,680 --> 00:32:47,640
Well, I I think that no, maybe
more in today's life than Ben
657
00:32:47,640 --> 00:32:50,680
and and and maybe I'm just being
silly, which I think.
658
00:32:50,720 --> 00:32:53,360
You are, yeah.
Yeah, well, you know how that's
659
00:32:53,440 --> 00:32:56,000
how I play stuff, but.
No, but that song is phenomenal.
660
00:32:56,600 --> 00:33:00,040
Yeah, that's a very that's a
very heartbreaking song.
661
00:33:00,160 --> 00:33:01,760
You know what?
You know this is the reality of
662
00:33:01,960 --> 00:33:04,600
what happened after.
When you play that, you know
663
00:33:04,600 --> 00:33:06,760
what I think of.
You've never seen the play, Miss
664
00:33:06,800 --> 00:33:09,760
Saigon.
No, but you've told me about it.
665
00:33:10,120 --> 00:33:15,200
But it's but it's very, very
similar to that and it ends that
666
00:33:15,200 --> 00:33:17,840
way in the very end.
And the wife and I saw it in
667
00:33:17,840 --> 00:33:20,520
London and it was like one of
those things that you don't want
668
00:33:20,520 --> 00:33:22,160
people to see you when the
lights come up because you're
669
00:33:22,160 --> 00:33:25,560
crying, you know.
And it's a very like heart
670
00:33:25,560 --> 00:33:27,920
wrenched, touching thing that
you know.
671
00:33:28,040 --> 00:33:30,680
And I love that kind of music
too when it's you know and the
672
00:33:30,680 --> 00:33:33,800
same thing.
I love Bernstein or certain
673
00:33:33,800 --> 00:33:36,640
pieces.
Glenn Miller in the mood.
674
00:33:36,640 --> 00:33:39,960
Benny Goodman Oh my gosh, you
hear that clarinet?
675
00:33:39,960 --> 00:33:41,720
And it just doesn't.
Doesn't make sense.
676
00:33:41,800 --> 00:33:44,840
Glenn Miller.
Yeah, well, no, he is trombone.
677
00:33:45,720 --> 00:33:50,680
Benny Goodman is, is my.
My dad was a big band guy
678
00:33:51,000 --> 00:33:52,560
always.
Oh, he was, yeah.
679
00:33:52,840 --> 00:33:56,520
Just crazy about that stuff.
You know, we used to always get
680
00:33:56,520 --> 00:34:00,520
stuck with watching Lawrence
Welk or Guy Lombardo at New
681
00:34:00,520 --> 00:34:04,920
Year's Eve, and he get hammered
and and we get in fights over
682
00:34:04,920 --> 00:34:07,120
it.
And you know, what is that shit?
683
00:34:07,200 --> 00:34:09,400
Why do we got to listen to that
again?
684
00:34:09,560 --> 00:34:10,600
But then you get older and
you're going.
685
00:34:10,600 --> 00:34:12,000
That's how much?
How valuable is it?
686
00:34:12,400 --> 00:34:16,280
No, that most of their music was
trash. the IT was the musicians
687
00:34:16,280 --> 00:34:19,239
like that.
If they had somebody like a Guy
688
00:34:19,239 --> 00:34:21,840
Lombardo, I mean if they had
somebody like a Benny Hill or.
689
00:34:22,080 --> 00:34:24,199
A.
Benny Goodman, Benny Hill.
690
00:34:24,320 --> 00:34:26,440
That'd be funny.
Yeah, Organized.
691
00:34:26,560 --> 00:34:29,679
I mean, if they had those people
playing, those people were like,
692
00:34:30,199 --> 00:34:32,480
you know, there are people.
What's the one I saw that was
693
00:34:32,480 --> 00:34:37,199
ripping on a on a guitar and I
was just like shocked by how God
694
00:34:37,199 --> 00:34:39,159
is from.
He's from the 40s and he was
695
00:34:39,159 --> 00:34:42,800
just playing a box guitar.
And I mean, not not like Glen
696
00:34:42,800 --> 00:34:44,400
Campbell.
I mean he's really good too.
697
00:34:44,400 --> 00:34:46,199
He was.
He was really, really just
698
00:34:46,199 --> 00:34:48,239
amazingly touching songs, you
know?
699
00:34:48,239 --> 00:34:50,320
I mean.
The best ball was really, really
700
00:34:50,360 --> 00:34:52,040
good at instrumentals.
Yeah.
701
00:34:52,880 --> 00:34:54,920
The original, yeah.
Well then there's Buddy.
702
00:34:55,239 --> 00:35:00,200
Is it Buddy Rich that plays the?
Problems.
703
00:35:00,960 --> 00:35:02,200
Maybe.
Or is that Buddy Guy?
704
00:35:03,640 --> 00:35:05,720
Guy Buddy Other.
No, one of the buddies.
705
00:35:05,720 --> 00:35:07,320
I don't freaking know one or the
other.
706
00:35:07,440 --> 00:35:08,400
I can't.
I can't.
707
00:35:08,640 --> 00:35:11,120
I'm not good with musicians.
Yeah, they're too good.
708
00:35:11,120 --> 00:35:12,760
They're.
All named Buddy you know.
709
00:35:12,960 --> 00:35:17,000
No, yeah, but I think we're
coming up on our time.
710
00:35:17,080 --> 00:35:20,040
We got a couple minutes left
here and we're gonna do much.
711
00:35:20,400 --> 00:35:22,760
Some SO music was a good topic.
I liked it.
712
00:35:22,760 --> 00:35:24,280
I think that we had a good time
with this.
713
00:35:24,560 --> 00:35:27,160
Well, I would say if anybody has
any topics that they'd like us
714
00:35:27,160 --> 00:35:30,960
to cover, like anything, whether
it's filthy or not or whether
715
00:35:30,960 --> 00:35:33,960
it's really personal, who cares?
I talk about anything for the
716
00:35:33,960 --> 00:35:37,160
most part and we'll and if you
want Zach to talk, we can make
717
00:35:37,160 --> 00:35:39,640
him talk too.
Yeah, we'll we'll talk about me
718
00:35:39,640 --> 00:35:41,800
at some point, maybe one day.
Right.
719
00:35:42,680 --> 00:35:44,520
We'll do.
We'll do a record of your
720
00:35:44,520 --> 00:35:47,920
mother.
I was thinking about doing a
721
00:35:47,920 --> 00:35:49,360
couple of themselves with her
the other day actually.
722
00:35:49,360 --> 00:35:51,120
I think that would be good that
that would be.
723
00:35:51,440 --> 00:35:52,760
I think she would, really.
Enjoy that.
724
00:35:53,040 --> 00:35:54,600
I think.
I think she would get a kick out
725
00:35:54,600 --> 00:35:57,560
of it, I think.
And even if you just taped it
726
00:35:57,560 --> 00:35:59,680
for your own personal whatever,
you don't have to pull it out
727
00:35:59,680 --> 00:36:02,160
there or something.
We could, we could, you could
728
00:36:02,160 --> 00:36:05,800
actually use it to salt the
other ones too, as long as she's
729
00:36:05,800 --> 00:36:08,080
OK with that.
Because not everybody has this
730
00:36:09,280 --> 00:36:12,440
narcissistic view about life the
way I do, you know, at.
731
00:36:12,720 --> 00:36:15,160
Least it's you have the self
evaluation of it.
732
00:36:15,680 --> 00:36:17,080
Though oh God, yeah, I am.
I am.
733
00:36:17,120 --> 00:36:20,160
You know, I that's The funny
thing is, is that I can get to
734
00:36:20,160 --> 00:36:22,960
the point where I know what I'm
doing wrong, but the hell if I'm
735
00:36:22,960 --> 00:36:24,920
gonna do anything about it.
A lot of people.
736
00:36:25,320 --> 00:36:28,240
Why do you?
Why are you driving 130 miles an
737
00:36:28,240 --> 00:36:29,720
hour?
Because I want to get there
738
00:36:29,720 --> 00:36:31,080
faster.
It's wrong.
739
00:36:31,080 --> 00:36:32,640
I know.
It's dangerous.
740
00:36:32,680 --> 00:36:35,880
I know.
Are you going to change that?
741
00:36:36,200 --> 00:36:41,680
No.
There's some respect, yeah, but
742
00:36:41,680 --> 00:36:43,880
it's like.
Yeah, I'm self aware that that's
743
00:36:43,880 --> 00:36:46,480
stupid and I could pay
consequences and all this other
744
00:36:46,480 --> 00:36:49,080
stuff, you know?
But there's also levels of risk
745
00:36:49,080 --> 00:36:50,480
too.
Like I don't drink and drive
746
00:36:50,480 --> 00:36:54,360
anymore, you know?
Yeah, you know.
747
00:36:54,720 --> 00:36:59,480
Yeah, that's that's a bad thing.
But I think this was great and
748
00:36:59,480 --> 00:37:03,040
as always, see us on Spotify.
We have AQ and A section.
749
00:37:03,360 --> 00:37:06,480
Do you have any ideas?
Any questions, Any answers?
750
00:37:06,480 --> 00:37:10,000
So if you have answers to our
questions, shoot, shoot from the
751
00:37:10,000 --> 00:37:12,040
hip and don't aim.
Yeah.
752
00:37:12,040 --> 00:37:14,480
And if anybody knows Joe Rogan,
you should mention our name on
753
00:37:14,480 --> 00:37:15,520
there.
We're all right.
754
00:37:15,520 --> 00:37:18,640
This is day three of mentioning
his name on this podcast.
755
00:37:18,880 --> 00:37:22,920
That's his sponsorship.
I think that it'll be 200 more
756
00:37:22,920 --> 00:37:24,480
days.
I think we should send him an
757
00:37:24,520 --> 00:37:26,600
invoice.
I think we should send him more
758
00:37:26,800 --> 00:37:28,160
invoices.
Yeah, we've already sent him a
759
00:37:28,160 --> 00:37:31,280
couple, but yeah, I think going
and I like that idea, might be
760
00:37:31,280 --> 00:37:34,200
more responsive.
But everybody have a great night
761
00:37:34,200 --> 00:37:37,920
and I hope the new year, the 1st
10 days of it has been treating
762
00:37:37,920 --> 00:37:41,040
you well.
It is 1/10/2024 and I hope you
763
00:37:41,040 --> 00:37:43,840
have a nice 1/11/2020.
Four.
764
00:37:43,840 --> 00:37:44,760
So when we, so we.
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Hello and welcome back to
another episode of a record of
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my final.
Here we are today.
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I think we're going to talk
about music for a little bit,
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and a little bit is being
exactly 34 minutes and 58
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seconds.
So what do you?
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What do you think about music?
Only got 34 minutes in here, 58
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seconds to talk about it.
I don't know what the.
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Hell to say, you better hurry
up.
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Not enough time.
You better.
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Just start like spitting it all
out.
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Let me think, what was my
earliest song that I listened to
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That and I would have to say it
was probably in first grade and
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it was Sugar Sugar by The
Archies playing my Candy Girl,
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whatever the hell it is.
I don't remember.
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That's my voice.
Yeah, I'm definitely.
16
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I'm definitely Lady Gaga.
We're going in karaoke soon
17
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enough, but when she's.
Asleep we're.
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Only talking about in the high
when you were to high school,
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there was a band and it was such
a bizarre band.
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Too well, I think the and when I
was in middle school, it was a
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when I was in Ripon Middle
School, there was our arch
22
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enemy, which was Fred and Lynn
Middle School and Aerosmith
23
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played there.
That's crazy.
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That played for a dance and that
would have been like 69 or 7,
25
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you know, right around there.
And that was when they were
26
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like, you know, they played at a
high, at A at a middle school
27
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dance.
And I was just like, wow.
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Well, that was like Jim Croce as
well.
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And Jim Croce played at a let's
see, it was in New York high
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school, yeah.
And I remember talking to a
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woman that went to the the ACDC
concert and she's like, I saw
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him play when I was in high
school.
33
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Isn't that crazy in?
The middle of yeah.
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And just the whole like, wow.
I mean, I think about musicians
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if I ever met any, the ones that
have touched me through the
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years.
I don't think I've met any
37
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really.
I've met one well.
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The coolest, well, the neatest
thing that I ever did was
39
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probably going to the Cat
Stevens that you and I and your
40
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mother went to.
Remember that.
41
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That was incredible.
Kennedy Center, that was.
42
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Just like unforgettable
experience, that was something.
43
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He has a voice and a way about
him that it exudes a feeling.
44
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And then when I was in, say it
from about eighth grade until
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11th grade, it's kind of one of
the few things that kept my head
46
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together.
You know, I was very, what do
47
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you want to call it?
Volatile.
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Crazy.
I did a lot of stuff.
49
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I got kicked out of school.
A lot of times I I I was first
50
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to action.
I was never someone to sit, but
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music is something that was just
sort of like, you know, I mean,
52
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you know, you hear it all the
time where it says call them the
53
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beast and it's like and it and
it does, it makes you feel
54
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better but also it amps you up.
I mean, I.
55
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I remember rewarding thing too
in your brain as well and that
56
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that's how it's used is that it
rewards your your serotonin
57
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level when you listen to music.
Well, it can also go the other
58
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way, 'cause I remember I worked
as a doorman at Georgetown in a
59
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club called Garrett's.
And I remember it was like 1145.
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And the and the and the guy put
on, and this is when we had
61
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cassettes and he puts in LA
Woman and that starts, and then
62
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everybody just starts jumping.
And then the owner happens to be
63
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there drinking beer with one of
his friends on a Friday night
64
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for whatever stupid reason.
And he goes over and he goes,
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you started it too soon.
Didn't know what that meant.
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Within 20 minutes, fights broke
out.
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I mean, just people.
Just randomly, yeah.
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One woman that that was the
night that the woman got hit in
69
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the forehead.
With the the.
70
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Pint glass and which I always
thought weird, but there was
71
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this, like Marines got in a
fight and somebody else got.
72
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I mean, it was just stupid.
Shit, that woman is not a song
73
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that I think that people would
fight.
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I wouldn't think so either, but
it was.
75
00:04:04,120 --> 00:04:06,240
Like Murphy's?
Yeah, OK.
76
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No, but it's a driving song that
that drives people and wakes
77
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them up and makes them it it it
boosts your the.
78
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Bass line in that song is very,
very.
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Oh my God it.
Boosts your.
80
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And it made people literally
they were doing the what do you
81
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call it when you see the I've
I've never been to a punk show.
82
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I should probably go to a punk
show where they jump up and down
83
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and I and and the bar is as many
people can fit in a room as big
84
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as this room.
I as big as a place see where
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you are right now.
Put 100 people in there, elbow
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to elbow with the bar at one end
and then another bar at the
87
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other end, a stairwell in the
middle, a side little room
88
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there.
I can tell the story about that
89
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where the woman went in there
and peed in the sink and that
90
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that was a great, that was
always that was a funny story,
91
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you know, and this was this was
that night.
92
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I mean, there was like so many
things that just went absolutely
93
00:05:01,560 --> 00:05:03,160
crazy.
There were other crazy things.
94
00:05:03,160 --> 00:05:05,280
But and then you told me she's
like, why am I getting kicked
95
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now?
I don't.
96
00:05:05,680 --> 00:05:08,880
I don't know what I mean.
I know she went in there and she
97
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said there's like a long lady
rolling to the ladies room,
98
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'cause I think everybody was
snorting coke in there at that
99
00:05:13,160 --> 00:05:16,000
time.
And it's like I I I can't, I'm
100
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not going to go to take their
coke, you know, and it's like
101
00:05:19,400 --> 00:05:22,600
figure it out.
And so she went into the room
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where we food off.
It's offshoot of the kitchen and
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there was a little sink in there
and.
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She pops up.
On the sink.
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And I'm going like, don't do
that.
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If you do that, I got to throw
you out.
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I can't help it.
And I just like, whatever.
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And then I go to throw her out.
Everybody.
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I can't believe you're doing
that.
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You're just a bastard.
And I'm like.
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You're such a misogynist, yeah.
Whatever.
112
00:05:46,840 --> 00:05:49,240
Whatever.
You know, if a guy had done it,
113
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I would have kicked him out too.
No, exactly.
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Pissing on her sink, On her
freaking pots and pans.
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No, no, no, no, no.
That's where we wash.
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The freaking pots and pans?
Well, this is probably a wake up
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call for many.
Well, I don't want to Garrison.
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That night, I think we just
served them, Hey, we're not
119
00:06:05,040 --> 00:06:06,800
going to charge you for the
special sauce.
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00:06:08,160 --> 00:06:12,280
Oh, oh, Oh my gosh, whatever.
What music are you?
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00:06:12,360 --> 00:06:15,080
Talking about music, I forgot
what music?
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Are you listening to these days?
What do you What do?
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You mean I still I I love, you
know, a long way to the top of
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rock'n'roll.
I love A/C, DCI, listen to the
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same songs.
I listen to pop.
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I love Carly Rae Jepsen.
I love.
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I was thinking about, I haven't
heard any Taylor songs.
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I want to go grab a Taylor song
and listen to that.
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That is just like a driven, fun
I, I, I could absolutely be one
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of those.
What are the floozies?
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What do they call them?
Floozies.
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No, no.
What are the people that follow
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her?
Swifties.
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Swifties.
Yeah, I'd be a Swifty, yeah.
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Yeah, that's.
It that was my guess, too.
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That was my Yeah, I'm a.
Swifty Man, I could be a Swifty
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I could.
Be a floozie, too.
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I didn't know that you listened
to her music.
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I would.
I haven't.
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I haven't.
I've heard a few of like the
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songs on the radio and I liked
them and I said, hey, I'm going
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to buy one was.
It the image, it's just the
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image city.
Well, I mean my house.
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I remember you laughing when I
when I when I bought that, and
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then my house.
What's another 1B?
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ANNANNANNANNY?
Whatever.
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It would be Gwen Stefani.
Gwen Stefani.
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I love that.
Who doesn't love Gwen Stefani?
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Hollaback Girl, no doubt was
also incredible as well when she
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was in.
There, Hollaback Girl is just
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whoa, you know?
And then there's two or three
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songs from from both Van Halen's
that are really good, you know?
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How dare you like I like them
both.
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You like Dan Hagar, man?
I like you.
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Like Dan Hagar, huh?
Yeah, yeah.
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I think that this meeting is
adjourned that we need to.
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He did 5150, man.
Which we're not doing this right
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now anymore.
Wait, I'm not a van.
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OK, Right now is a really good
song, OK.
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I do like right now.
I do like right?
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Now you know and you listen to
but I.
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Didn't say that you didn't hear
it from me and.
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What was the one where David Lee
Roth is looking over into the
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abyss and he lost a few friends
there?
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It's not just jump, it's on
jump.
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No, I love jump.
I used to listen to that.
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It's not Panama either.
And and now when I was in
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college, MTV one year when I was
at ODU.
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He made the music video, You
know that.
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Oh yeah, I saw.
That the whole modern conception
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of the music video.
He he did the backward flip and
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you would see Eddie playing and
when he saw his it, to me it was
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just it was magic.
How fast and how exacting he
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could move his hands up and down
the guitar and you just look at
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that.
You're just like, you know that
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to me is that's freaking
Beethoven on a guitar.
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You know, just because the
movement to move from the top to
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the bottom and to to stretch and
just, you know, I just love
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that.
I mean, I love that.
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I've seen that in Billy Idol's
guitar when they were doing
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Rebel Yell and you saw the
guitarist and he flips the
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guitar behind his back and he
catches it and he and he just
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goes crazy.
Of course, Prince, you can't
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anything.
My heart is gently weeping.
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It's everybody's seen that and
you.
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Yeah, that was that just.
I mean, you just go like, what
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an amazing musician.
Or Stevie Ray Vaughan, voodoo
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child.
When you see him play and he's
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playing and he breaks guitar
strings while he's doing a rift,
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he switches to the other guitar
strings.
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A guy comes on stage UN hitches
his guitar, re hitches the new
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one and he jumps and keeps
going.
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What the?
That's not human.
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That's just or or that's
somebody that that they have a.
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There are people that have
talent and and don't like go
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after it, but he's a person that
they said.
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Just like as soon as he finished
his show, he goes sitting in his
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in his limo, waiting to go to
the next thing or going.
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To.
The and he'd be playing that.
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Stevie Ray Vaughan he'd be
playing the guitar and it's like
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when you look at the people and
and Eddie Van Halen was the same
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way.
I mean I remember Sammy Hagar
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when he I wrote it.
They read a piece about when he
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showed up at his house to to to
audition, and he said they're
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all sitting there drinking beer
and smoking cigars in the garage
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or smoking cigarettes in the
garage and Eddie Van Halen is
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just playing the guitar.
Yeah, he never stopped.
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You know, he just never stopped.
Well, that's what he would do as
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well as he would sit in his room
for long hours and just like
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because that's what he found to
be most interesting.
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That passion is a really, really
cool thing to see.
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When you see how they put it
into something that's and and
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that that's what people Voice
said about me.
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They said I have that passion
when it comes to the businesses
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that I've been in and the things
that you know, when I believe
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something, I believe it or I
don't, you know, so I have that,
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I'm they.
Say that you're the Eddie Van
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Halen of the SEC law firm.
There you go.
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I, I, I would love to say that I
was something like that, but
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that ain't there's a lot.
Yeah, there's a lot of brilliant
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people.
But anyway.
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Anyway, I like that other music.
What was it?
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But what about silence?
Because when you're in the car
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for the longest time, I think
when I turned 1615 or 16, you
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just stopped listening to music
in the call.
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Well, because The thing is, is
that to me, it was distracting
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when I'm with you because it's
like you're my kid and it's like
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I don't have and and remember,
it may not have seemed like a
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long time to you, but I went to
work at 7:00 in the morning and
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I didn't get home until 6:00 at
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No, I remember.
And that was Monday through
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Friday.
And then on on weekends, A lot
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of times I was going to bed at
9:00 on Saturday so I can get up
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at 3:30 Sunday freaking morning
and make it to the airport by
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5:00 so I could Peck, catch a
flight, and go set up a freaking
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booth on the other side of in
Chicago or Texas or California
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or New York.
No, I remember.
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So it was like I had to focus my
time on you.
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But remember our songs?
Oh my God, what was it?
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Jay Giles Band.
We listened to Centerfolds maybe
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1000 times, maybe 1000 times.
In the pickup truck, I swear
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everyday.
What were you in 3rd grade?
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Something like that.
That's why I actually do a music
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face.
You and I was really called into
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that.
Well, she's the greatest because
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she.
Had she had the playlist?
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She has this wide diverse and
see that's what another thing
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that sort of turned me on about
her is the fact that she likes
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she loved all that stuff from
the 80s.
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The silky whatever the heck and
all that and and I never tried
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anything.
All the music that I've ever
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done most of it with the
exception of very, very few
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pieces have been you know my
brother was a member of the
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Columbia Lighthouse.
Not.
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No not for the blind Columbia
Columbia Records.
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They used to do 12 records for a
penny and you would get those
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and then you'd have to buy the
rest of the albums, that regular
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album prices, which are 699 and
you could buy them in the store
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for 299, but you buy them for
the six.
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So they made money that way.
And but it also was an instant
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record collection, a dozen
albums and he had like Sly and
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the Family Stone everyday.
People I remember.
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Listening to that, he
satisfaction the original.
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What the heck was it original?
Rolling Stones?
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What was that one song?
What was the one that No
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Satisfaction?
The original 64 album I
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remember.
So the album.
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What's his name on the front
with that funny look?
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Who else there were?
There were just so many
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different Those are the two that
really stick out at me.
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The Sly and the family Stone.
Rolling Stones.
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What was that album that you had
by the A Strange?
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European band?
Oh, you mean?
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Like it was one.
It was it was like a Harry or
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something.
Rancid.
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No, no, that was.
Yeah, I got.
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I heard that one.
Song by them.
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And it was so I've never heard.
And it it sounds so strange.
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Well, it's not like Alan Parsons
project is.
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It no, no, no, no, no.
It's more it's way I said it's.
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I love that.
That was my that was my breakup
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album.
Oh my.
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God, yeah.
You ever do that when you?
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Break up, listen to this album
around that time, I'm gonna say.
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That when somebody breaks your
heart, you go and you try to
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like mend it, you try to figure
out ways to do it.
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Music is 1 great way, but you
know all the songs are like, Oh
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my life is all about you, you
know, Which is sort of stupid.
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But at the same time, I mean for
me in particular, I would
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exercise and I would listen to
songs and so I would get an
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album and I remember my my my
early break up when I was in my
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teens was I would put an album
on.
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I do setups.
Yeah.
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And I would do until one side
was done.
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I remember, I remember The
Doobie Brothers, the Captain and
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me.
I would do that album.
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I would do I robot both sides
the album.
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Great album.
I would do, yeah.
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Todd Rundgren, A Wizard of True
Star.
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That's an amazing album.
I have that one.
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Amazing.
I have that one.
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Oh my God.
I had all these and I got rid of
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them for some stupid reason.
What was the other one?
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CDs or the the Future?
No, I didn't, you know, the wife
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had all the music in the world
and and I and I and music had
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really started to play a back
seat to my life then.
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So I didn't, I didn't.
I had it all the time, and I
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played it all the time when I
was in the car.
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And the only time I play it loud
is when I'm trying to annoy the
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person next to me in the car,
'cause they're pissing me off.
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And so, I mean, it's real more.
It's more of a sword than a
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soothe, I would say.
A sword than a soothe.
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Yeah, that's going.
That's going to get our new
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merchandise thing online coming
up soon.
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I I come up with that stuff all
the time.
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I'm, I'm, I'm the most person,
the most full of shit marketing
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person you'll ever find.
Or.
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The most person marketing shit.
There's a market interesting.
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Nothing like that.
I got in the vinyl ones.
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You just throw all that stuff
out there.
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Yeah.
I, I, I'm, I'm great at pithy
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statements that encompass things
that people go, wow, that sounds
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really cool.
Just don't analyze it too much.
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'Cause it's toning.
Have you used the record player
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in that room that you're in yet?
The the one that I show you how
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to use, I showed it.
I think I did with you.
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Yeah, I showed you how to use it
and.
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I don't think I've used it
since.
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Oh really?
Is it plugged into the?
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Yeah, I think it's plugged in.
I set off for you up there.
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Oh, OK.
Everything should work.
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I should put it on right now.
I'll listen to Frank Sinatra.
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I listen.
I like his.
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I mean, he does the I did it my
way.
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I love that song.
Or New York, NY I love that.
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I love that from Jay-Z as well.
Well, there was that strange man
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at the dump that was getting rid
of like.
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Oh my God, that was the craziest
thing in the world, 'cause I go
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to the dump and I'm throwing out
cigar boxes, 'cause I I mean, I
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smoke cigars.
I probably smoke a box and a
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half a month.
I have like 50 cigar boxes, you
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know, and they're all wooden and
they're made out of a, you know,
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cedar.
So they're kind of neat.
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And I try to give them away to
people and you take them and
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stores sell them and shit and I
don't care.
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I'm just like, I feel bad that I
don't get to reuse them.
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And so I'm, I'm taking them to
the dump and I've, I've got a
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ton of them.
And I see this guy next to me in
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this old freaking Fairlane at
Fairmont, Falmouth, whatever the
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00:17:42,680 --> 00:17:45,400
weather was station wagon.
And he's in the back and he's
351
00:17:45,400 --> 00:17:48,400
talking and he's taking out
albums and I'm looking at them.
352
00:17:48,400 --> 00:17:54,800
I'm going like, he takes like a
big box full and he throws it in
353
00:17:54,800 --> 00:17:56,720
the dumpster, And I said, dude,
what are you doing?
354
00:17:56,720 --> 00:17:59,320
And he goes, I'm getting rid of
my albums because my girlfriend
355
00:17:59,320 --> 00:18:04,160
said it's either them or me.
And I think if she throws them
356
00:18:04,160 --> 00:18:05,440
out, she's going to throw me out
too.
357
00:18:05,800 --> 00:18:11,480
And so and I was like, and I was
like, and I'm looking at them
358
00:18:11,480 --> 00:18:13,360
and I and I'm holding cigar
boxes.
359
00:18:13,360 --> 00:18:15,640
He goes, why in the world would
you throw that away?
360
00:18:16,840 --> 00:18:18,880
And so and I'm going like cigar
boxes, man.
361
00:18:18,880 --> 00:18:21,760
I smoke and I got like 50 of my
don't know what to do with them.
362
00:18:21,760 --> 00:18:23,880
And he goes, well, I'll take
them.
363
00:18:24,320 --> 00:18:26,600
And I said, well, I want your
albums And he goes, would you
364
00:18:26,600 --> 00:18:28,560
want to look at them?
I said, no, I'll take every
365
00:18:28,560 --> 00:18:30,680
single one.
You sure you don't want to look
366
00:18:30,680 --> 00:18:32,000
at them?
There's a lot of show tunes and
367
00:18:32,000 --> 00:18:33,800
stuff in there.
And I was like, is he gay?
368
00:18:33,800 --> 00:18:35,840
Is he coming on to me?
He's like, you know, that's what
369
00:18:35,840 --> 00:18:38,640
I thought at first.
Yeah, that's that means, I mean.
370
00:18:38,640 --> 00:18:40,920
Whatever, you know.
But yet he has.
371
00:18:40,920 --> 00:18:47,080
Like Andy Williams, he has all
of these every K.
372
00:18:47,080 --> 00:18:50,240
Harry Belafonte I remember Harry
Belafonte.
373
00:18:51,760 --> 00:18:53,560
That sounds really good too.
Wow.
374
00:18:53,560 --> 00:18:56,240
Sonny, son of a preacher man.
Who is that?
375
00:18:56,840 --> 00:18:59,600
Dusty Springfield.
Dusty Springfield Oh my God.
376
00:18:59,600 --> 00:19:01,480
He's got like everything from
the 60s.
377
00:19:01,480 --> 00:19:04,720
I was just like, holy crap.
And a lot of late 50s had Lena
378
00:19:04,720 --> 00:19:09,440
Horne had. 50s as.
Well, yeah, I mean, there were
379
00:19:09,440 --> 00:19:10,640
just amazing.
Stuff.
380
00:19:10,640 --> 00:19:12,680
A lot of TV show stuff too,
yeah.
381
00:19:12,840 --> 00:19:14,800
And we still haven't.
We still haven't do that Well,
382
00:19:14,800 --> 00:19:16,960
I.
Think that that's kind of what
383
00:19:17,200 --> 00:19:20,120
the whole the whole thing was
back then, that that's where
384
00:19:20,120 --> 00:19:24,040
albums kind of you know, you
need an idea and if you're going
385
00:19:24,040 --> 00:19:27,040
to play a song, well, people
realize that hey, if you have
386
00:19:27,040 --> 00:19:30,720
rock around the clock on a
television show, more people
387
00:19:30,720 --> 00:19:32,520
will watch it because.
There's something.
388
00:19:32,520 --> 00:19:35,640
That links to it.
And that was the early days of,
389
00:19:35,680 --> 00:19:38,560
you know, music in the
background, having people clap
390
00:19:38,560 --> 00:19:41,560
in the background in between,
and then having laugh tracks and
391
00:19:41,560 --> 00:19:45,840
all that other happy crap that
makes you believe that that it's
392
00:19:45,840 --> 00:19:47,720
something that you should watch.
And it's wonderful.
393
00:19:47,880 --> 00:19:51,920
Well, that's funny too, when
talking about airport music that
394
00:19:51,920 --> 00:19:54,240
was developed by kind of Brian
Eno.
395
00:19:54,240 --> 00:19:57,160
And then he was in a car crash,
right?
396
00:19:57,280 --> 00:20:00,480
And his friend comes in and puts
on an album and then wasn't it a
397
00:20:00,480 --> 00:20:03,080
high enough decibel?
It was like very low.
398
00:20:03,960 --> 00:20:07,000
And so he was listening to it
and he realized that music is as
399
00:20:07,000 --> 00:20:11,240
impactful at that level as it is
at a higher level, right.
400
00:20:11,520 --> 00:20:13,960
And that's why, really, if
you've ever listened to airport
401
00:20:13,960 --> 00:20:16,040
music, it's phenomenal.
Really.
402
00:20:16,080 --> 00:20:19,160
This is such a load decimal and
it's it's very very interesting.
403
00:20:19,160 --> 00:20:20,600
I don't know.
So then he developed.
404
00:20:20,600 --> 00:20:22,600
They play ACDC at the airport.
Come on.
405
00:20:22,720 --> 00:20:26,080
For ambient music, No ambient
music, but it was.
406
00:20:26,200 --> 00:20:28,600
It's really something, really
something.
407
00:20:28,600 --> 00:20:29,960
You got me.
You got me thinking now.
408
00:20:30,440 --> 00:20:31,600
I mean, I've heard elevator
music.
409
00:20:31,600 --> 00:20:33,520
That was really good.
Yeah, but that's the why it
410
00:20:33,520 --> 00:20:36,960
exists.
It's because of the whole idea
411
00:20:37,000 --> 00:20:39,440
and invention of NBA music.
Playing it, Yeah.
412
00:20:39,440 --> 00:20:41,360
Because you think about it, it's
like, how do you, how do you
413
00:20:41,360 --> 00:20:45,800
keep a large group calm?
And I mean, even I, I go back to
414
00:20:45,800 --> 00:20:48,840
that thing when the guy said you
started, you started the music
415
00:20:48,840 --> 00:20:50,440
too soon, 'cause what you're
supposed to do.
416
00:20:50,440 --> 00:20:52,280
And then what?
He said, he said you don't play
417
00:20:52,280 --> 00:20:55,160
music like that.
When bars closing at two, you,
418
00:20:55,280 --> 00:21:00,240
you start playing those songs at
12:45 to to about one, 'cause
419
00:21:00,240 --> 00:21:03,120
then you get everybody amped up.
So they they pound their last
420
00:21:03,120 --> 00:21:06,680
two or three drinks, they amp up
the money they put in.
421
00:21:06,680 --> 00:21:12,000
If they start pounding drinks at
11, they're going to be just
422
00:21:12,120 --> 00:21:15,880
knee walking drunk by two when
the bars when we're kicking you
423
00:21:15,880 --> 00:21:19,760
out, you know?
So it was like, you don't want
424
00:21:19,760 --> 00:21:22,640
them to really start pounding
drinks until like almost 1:00 in
425
00:21:22,640 --> 00:21:24,320
the morning, 'cause then they
got 30 minutes.
426
00:21:24,320 --> 00:21:26,000
And most people drink one or
two.
427
00:21:26,360 --> 00:21:28,960
And then usually you're trying
to throw them out like before 2
428
00:21:28,960 --> 00:21:32,000
and they're they're sitting
there with two, two beers or two
429
00:21:32,200 --> 00:21:33,680
beers.
Just 5 minutes ago.
430
00:21:33,720 --> 00:21:35,320
I can't believe you're throwing
me out.
431
00:21:35,320 --> 00:21:39,440
And it's on like last call was
30 minutes ago, so no, you
432
00:21:39,440 --> 00:21:41,600
didn't buy them 5 minutes ago.
You're just slow as shit.
433
00:21:41,600 --> 00:21:43,760
You're hanging out over here,
Gavin, and thinking that we're
434
00:21:43,760 --> 00:21:45,440
going to stay up all night
because we don't want to go home
435
00:21:46,080 --> 00:21:47,480
and that's just not going to
happen.
436
00:21:48,040 --> 00:21:50,040
No, it's not.
Leave.
437
00:21:50,880 --> 00:21:54,200
Get out.
No, I was never mean.
438
00:21:54,200 --> 00:21:59,040
I was I for the I I was like
almost in every instance I'm
439
00:21:59,040 --> 00:22:01,960
trying to think I I was never
like I'm there.
440
00:22:02,800 --> 00:22:08,000
It paid to be decent to people.
There were that, you know, or to
441
00:22:08,000 --> 00:22:11,640
give them alternatives, you
know, 'cause that was the whole
442
00:22:11,680 --> 00:22:14,360
the whole thing is like you,
you're dealing with somebody
443
00:22:14,360 --> 00:22:18,920
that's, you know, inebriated.
He might be on a little bit of
444
00:22:18,920 --> 00:22:22,840
speed, maybe a little cocaine, a
little this, little that.
445
00:22:22,840 --> 00:22:26,520
And so their mind is not, it's
not and and.
446
00:22:26,880 --> 00:22:30,280
And.
You're about, I mean, I there
447
00:22:30,280 --> 00:22:33,800
was rarely a day that I worked
there that I wasn't at least a
448
00:22:33,800 --> 00:22:37,120
third in the bag, you know,
'cause, I mean, I'd show up at
449
00:22:37,120 --> 00:22:41,120
8:00 and I had a bartender,
Brian, who was just this great
450
00:22:41,120 --> 00:22:45,800
guy, and he would do this.
He would, he'd swap his head
451
00:22:45,800 --> 00:22:50,840
like come here doggy, and he
would set a a little glass about
452
00:22:51,040 --> 00:22:54,640
this big full of Heaven Hill
bourbon.
453
00:22:55,480 --> 00:22:58,920
And he would set it on the par
and he would say it's your
454
00:22:58,920 --> 00:23:01,560
hourly.
And he would give me an hourly
455
00:23:01,560 --> 00:23:06,840
drink of bourbon, which is
about, I don't know, the shock,
456
00:23:07,600 --> 00:23:10,240
no, hell no.
Maybe.
457
00:23:10,240 --> 00:23:12,080
Maybe this much, maybe this
much.
458
00:23:12,080 --> 00:23:13,040
Maybe a little.
Less than this.
459
00:23:13,240 --> 00:23:18,200
Three fingers so you would chug
it and it was just enough that I
460
00:23:18,200 --> 00:23:23,920
could take it all in, you know,
Which sounds really sexual but
461
00:23:24,560 --> 00:23:27,520
wasn't meant to be anyway.
I mean, just enough because it
462
00:23:27,520 --> 00:23:32,840
was like when you look at a
glass, no, no, no ice and you go
463
00:23:32,840 --> 00:23:35,560
all the way to that little lip
around the top, it was just
464
00:23:35,560 --> 00:23:39,240
below that and it was just like.
And it.
465
00:23:39,280 --> 00:23:41,600
Was Heaven Hill, and everybody
used to it was rail bourbon.
466
00:23:41,600 --> 00:23:43,600
It was supposed to be.
Everybody talk about Heaven Hill
467
00:23:43,600 --> 00:23:45,520
being crap.
And I got to tell you, I love
468
00:23:45,520 --> 00:23:48,360
that bourbon.
I mean, for $3 a quart, it was
469
00:23:48,360 --> 00:23:52,080
great, $3 at 3:50, it might have
been four then.
470
00:23:52,080 --> 00:23:54,880
So prices rise.
Well, that's terrible.
471
00:23:55,400 --> 00:23:57,040
Yeah, it was really it was
really kind of good.
472
00:23:57,320 --> 00:24:00,040
But anyway, we're losing sight
of all the different musics.
473
00:24:00,160 --> 00:24:01,120
Are we?
Might.
474
00:24:01,160 --> 00:24:01,800
I'm.
I don't know.
475
00:24:01,800 --> 00:24:03,840
I think though, we're branching
out that we're discovering
476
00:24:03,840 --> 00:24:07,040
because music, if not, grabs
memories and we're talking about
477
00:24:07,160 --> 00:24:07,840
those.
Well, that's it.
478
00:24:07,840 --> 00:24:09,480
It's like, what song do you
remember?
479
00:24:09,480 --> 00:24:11,640
It's like, you know, my wedding
was Pacha Bell's Canon.
480
00:24:12,200 --> 00:24:18,480
I just when I hear that, I stop
and I can see my wife walking.
481
00:24:18,520 --> 00:24:21,600
Downs cannon.
Pocket bells, Cannon.
482
00:24:21,600 --> 00:24:22,960
I don't.
Think that's right.
483
00:24:22,960 --> 00:24:24,480
I think it.
Yeah, it's something like that.
484
00:24:24,480 --> 00:24:27,560
Mozart, whatever it it, I'll
find it and I'll.
485
00:24:27,560 --> 00:24:28,920
Send it to you, Cannon Symphony,
or.
486
00:24:29,120 --> 00:24:30,320
Something it's probably that
too.
487
00:24:30,640 --> 00:24:32,640
I don't know.
But I every time I hear it, I
488
00:24:32,640 --> 00:24:34,760
know what it is, I know what it
sounds like.
489
00:24:35,240 --> 00:24:38,320
Then it just it just moves me,
you know?
490
00:24:38,320 --> 00:24:41,000
Cuz that's when I remember
seeing her and my brother hadn't
491
00:24:41,000 --> 00:24:42,320
gotten there yet.
And that was funny.
492
00:24:42,600 --> 00:24:44,120
We.
Can link the the song in the,
493
00:24:44,120 --> 00:24:46,280
you know the.
Wedding was interesting too.
494
00:24:46,280 --> 00:24:48,640
I can go down.
I can run the stories down.
495
00:24:48,880 --> 00:24:52,640
We're going to link the song.
You can't go in until the, the
496
00:24:52,800 --> 00:24:57,640
until the until the group's
mother gets here.
497
00:25:01,360 --> 00:25:03,160
By the hell my Oh my.
My my mother was 1/2 an hour
498
00:25:03,160 --> 00:25:05,840
late.
In the oh, I I remember hearing
499
00:25:05,880 --> 00:25:09,800
this.
Yeah, it's that was well she
500
00:25:09,800 --> 00:25:11,440
had.
She had to do the wash, man.
501
00:25:11,440 --> 00:25:15,680
She had to put the laundry in
that.
502
00:25:15,760 --> 00:25:19,680
That is exactly what she said.
Well, I had to put a wash in and
503
00:25:19,680 --> 00:25:23,080
I'm just like, I didn't even bat
an eye.
504
00:25:23,920 --> 00:25:25,680
Well, she was unstable at this
point, wasn't she?
505
00:25:26,600 --> 00:25:27,440
I don't know.
I don't.
506
00:25:27,440 --> 00:25:28,120
I don't.
I don't know.
507
00:25:28,200 --> 00:25:30,040
I mean, she might have been a
little bit, but.
508
00:25:31,160 --> 00:25:33,640
That means if you look at that.
No, No, she did not.
509
00:25:34,160 --> 00:25:37,640
She she was.
She did not think that anybody
510
00:25:37,640 --> 00:25:40,640
that married her sons was good
enough.
511
00:25:41,200 --> 00:25:44,200
No, she's just that way.
She was never going to accept
512
00:25:44,200 --> 00:25:46,000
her.
Valerie, she was never going to.
513
00:25:46,000 --> 00:25:48,680
She never accepted my brothers
and their wives.
514
00:25:48,840 --> 00:25:51,680
She never accepted any of them.
So that that that was just her
515
00:25:51,680 --> 00:25:53,960
thing.
You know, I, you know, they were
516
00:25:53,960 --> 00:25:57,520
taking us away from her.
And I guess that's a hard thing.
517
00:25:57,520 --> 00:25:59,920
You know, at some point you're
going to get married and you
518
00:25:59,920 --> 00:26:01,880
know.
And if and if she turns into be
519
00:26:01,880 --> 00:26:05,960
that way, then I will point to
her that they should be
520
00:26:05,960 --> 00:26:06,960
accepted.
I don't.
521
00:26:07,440 --> 00:26:08,920
Actually.
No, but she's not that kind of
522
00:26:08,920 --> 00:26:11,440
person, you know what I mean?
She's not vindictive.
523
00:26:11,640 --> 00:26:14,960
Yeah, and there's also like the
the home life was we were
524
00:26:14,960 --> 00:26:16,440
protection, so.
Yeah.
525
00:26:17,000 --> 00:26:19,920
We're protection from the old
man, so when as we go away,
526
00:26:20,120 --> 00:26:24,920
she's still there and you know,
there's one less body between me
527
00:26:25,040 --> 00:26:26,480
and him.
No.
528
00:26:27,880 --> 00:26:30,200
Exactly the good old days,
weren't they?
529
00:26:30,240 --> 00:26:33,680
Just so wonderful.
Yeah, yeah, I think I should
530
00:26:33,680 --> 00:26:36,600
beat you or something.
I I think a little bit more.
531
00:26:36,640 --> 00:26:38,280
I think you might have missed
the train.
532
00:26:38,640 --> 00:26:40,880
I think it's too late.
Though I think it's way too late
533
00:26:40,880 --> 00:26:41,440
now.
You might.
534
00:26:41,560 --> 00:26:44,080
You probably hit me back.
That, yeah.
535
00:26:44,080 --> 00:26:47,880
That wouldn't be probably that.
Song Would I hit you back too
536
00:26:47,880 --> 00:26:49,320
though?
Yeah, it's my.
537
00:26:51,080 --> 00:26:54,200
Way to hell.
I used to sing ACD Scene
538
00:26:54,200 --> 00:26:55,040
concert.
You remember?
539
00:26:55,400 --> 00:26:58,760
That Yeah, me and you, Yeah.
That song, Highway to Hell.
540
00:26:58,840 --> 00:27:03,040
My mother used to drive me to
work when I worked at Newton
541
00:27:03,040 --> 00:27:06,800
Asphalt.
Every morning at 6:00, 6/15, she
542
00:27:06,800 --> 00:27:12,120
would go and drop me off over in
Springfield and then she would
543
00:27:12,120 --> 00:27:13,720
drive over to the other side of
Springfield.
544
00:27:13,720 --> 00:27:16,440
She dropped me off at Van Dorn
Street right in there, and then
545
00:27:16,440 --> 00:27:21,360
turn around and drive and like
my God, I would say one day a
546
00:27:21,360 --> 00:27:24,120
week we were late.
It was just mind numbing 'cause
547
00:27:24,120 --> 00:27:26,760
she was.
She's a a fiddler.
548
00:27:27,520 --> 00:27:30,480
Always fiddling around.
Oh no, I I think we need to.
549
00:27:30,880 --> 00:27:32,880
We need to.
This glass is dirty.
550
00:27:33,240 --> 00:27:35,160
No, no.
Oh, oh, no.
551
00:27:35,160 --> 00:27:37,120
This is we.
We need to charge this.
552
00:27:38,240 --> 00:27:41,200
There's dirty dishes in the sink
I can't leave.
553
00:27:41,360 --> 00:27:44,360
And you're just like I if I'm
not there by 7:00, I get fired.
554
00:27:45,960 --> 00:27:47,000
Do you?
Do you not I mean?
555
00:27:47,000 --> 00:27:49,200
What is the world doing?
You a favor by God?
556
00:27:49,760 --> 00:27:53,760
Well, no, no, no, I 'cause I
over and over and over kept
557
00:27:53,760 --> 00:27:57,640
saying I'll do no, no, it's it's
a waste and it's good and we
558
00:27:57,680 --> 00:27:59,520
should do this and it's bond
and.
559
00:27:59,520 --> 00:28:01,840
She's oh, she wanted to do it,
Yeah.
560
00:28:01,960 --> 00:28:04,560
Yeah.
So I was like, I I kept doing
561
00:28:04,560 --> 00:28:08,360
this because she needed that
psycho stuff.
562
00:28:08,360 --> 00:28:09,720
But it was great.
I remember her.
563
00:28:10,040 --> 00:28:13,800
She would, she would play that
every morning, 'cause she had a
564
00:28:14,360 --> 00:28:16,800
she had the cassette or yeah,
she had the cassette and would
565
00:28:16,800 --> 00:28:19,400
play Highway to Hell, and we'd
listen to that and we're just
566
00:28:19,800 --> 00:28:22,920
going down the road at about 9
miles an hour.
567
00:28:22,960 --> 00:28:26,120
And that's all 'cause that's all
the traffic was so freaking
568
00:28:26,120 --> 00:28:27,520
terrible in.
Springfield.
569
00:28:28,320 --> 00:28:30,000
Well, no.
You'd start in Woodbridge and
570
00:28:30,000 --> 00:28:34,000
you'd go route one and route
one, then went on to 95 N and 95
571
00:28:34,000 --> 00:28:40,600
N, went to I guess 495 towards
Baltimore.
572
00:28:41,680 --> 00:28:44,920
And then your first exit was Van
Dorn St. and she looped down
573
00:28:44,920 --> 00:28:47,320
there, Get over.
You had to get over the railroad
574
00:28:47,320 --> 00:28:50,280
tracks before the train came to
drop me off because the train
575
00:28:50,280 --> 00:28:53,080
came through at like 7:00 in the
morning and that was the asphalt
576
00:28:53,080 --> 00:28:55,120
train.
And if she missed that, then I'd
577
00:28:55,120 --> 00:28:56,960
be late for work.
And then it'd be like go to the
578
00:28:56,960 --> 00:28:58,520
job site and it's like we hate
you.
579
00:28:58,600 --> 00:29:02,400
And it was just very, very.
It's like we hate you.
580
00:29:02,400 --> 00:29:03,040
Yeah.
Oh my God.
581
00:29:03,760 --> 00:29:06,160
You know, did you ever?
Listen to music on the job site.
582
00:29:11,400 --> 00:29:13,120
That's all.
I see people with these wireless
583
00:29:13,120 --> 00:29:14,600
speakers.
No.
584
00:29:15,320 --> 00:29:17,680
Well, The thing is, is like
asphalt, you're you're on the
585
00:29:17,680 --> 00:29:21,000
road and you're on, you're on a
machine, you're on a machine
586
00:29:21,000 --> 00:29:25,520
that's 120 decibels that it
blows your ears out, OK.
587
00:29:25,520 --> 00:29:28,800
And you're grinding the asphalt.
If you're, if you're laying it,
588
00:29:28,800 --> 00:29:32,360
you're moving so fast that
you're at a, you're at a brisk
589
00:29:32,360 --> 00:29:34,800
walk pace.
So you would need to and then
590
00:29:35,120 --> 00:29:37,560
there wasn't power.
Then we're talking 8182,
591
00:29:37,560 --> 00:29:40,160
something like that.
So it wasn't the same when I did
592
00:29:40,320 --> 00:29:44,320
concrete.
When I did concrete we would
593
00:29:46,320 --> 00:29:50,040
you're working in one location
but there were houses all around
594
00:29:50,040 --> 00:29:51,560
you.
So you're always like cognizant
595
00:29:51,560 --> 00:29:54,120
of, you know, you got a pee and
if they didn't have a Dons,
596
00:29:54,120 --> 00:29:57,480
Johnny had to go find a Bush
and, you know, try to stay out
597
00:29:57,480 --> 00:30:00,800
of people's view so the
neighbors wouldn't be pissed off
598
00:30:00,800 --> 00:30:03,600
that you're, you know, pissing
the back fencers, whatever.
599
00:30:03,920 --> 00:30:05,360
And.
He's out there flanking his
600
00:30:05,360 --> 00:30:07,920
winter and he's like, I gotta
pee, man, you know?
601
00:30:07,920 --> 00:30:10,440
And then if you had to go poo,
oh, God.
602
00:30:11,280 --> 00:30:13,160
Take the truck, man.
Go somewhere.
603
00:30:13,440 --> 00:30:16,200
Yeah, It was always the good old
days.
604
00:30:16,200 --> 00:30:17,720
And this is where music leads
us.
605
00:30:19,240 --> 00:30:21,000
I got all.
The.
606
00:30:21,800 --> 00:30:23,760
Yeah.
Well, I mean I got The thing is
607
00:30:23,760 --> 00:30:24,840
is like I just.
Relate.
608
00:30:25,200 --> 00:30:27,080
That's 3/4 of your life in a
sense.
609
00:30:27,120 --> 00:30:29,800
You spent 3/4 of your life in
the bathroom.
610
00:30:29,800 --> 00:30:33,800
My school.
That's where I do my best read.
611
00:30:35,760 --> 00:30:38,120
Yeah, but I don't, you know, I
don't listen to music in the
612
00:30:38,120 --> 00:30:40,000
bathroom.
I don't either.
613
00:30:40,800 --> 00:30:43,080
Yeah, I just never, never had
any desire.
614
00:30:43,080 --> 00:30:47,840
And like dinner time, I would
rather, unless I'm by myself, I
615
00:30:47,840 --> 00:30:50,680
don't play music, then it's
quiet most of the time.
616
00:30:50,680 --> 00:30:52,640
In the house we don't.
We don't play music.
617
00:30:52,640 --> 00:30:57,200
I only play music now when I'm
by myself and I'm and
618
00:30:57,800 --> 00:31:01,320
occasionally when a if I start
up the car and a song is good,
619
00:31:01,440 --> 00:31:04,240
when I'm driving the dogs to
walk, when I drop twice a day,
620
00:31:04,240 --> 00:31:07,560
it's like I I listen to the song
and maybe and then if it goes
621
00:31:07,560 --> 00:31:10,200
into the commercial craft then
I'm like screw that, I do.
622
00:31:10,200 --> 00:31:12,760
Every time I listen to my
Spotify playlist that I've been
623
00:31:12,760 --> 00:31:15,720
making since 2012, actually.
Well, every time I get in the
624
00:31:15,720 --> 00:31:19,640
car with you, you play music.
You won't leave the driveway or
625
00:31:19,640 --> 00:31:23,000
the wherever we are.
Until you start music, I won't.
626
00:31:23,000 --> 00:31:26,440
That's like your thing.
Yeah, I don't know why I do
627
00:31:26,560 --> 00:31:28,760
anything.
Valerie used to be a lot more
628
00:31:28,760 --> 00:31:32,960
like that and it and it's like
and she has this diverse.
629
00:31:33,240 --> 00:31:34,760
There might be a learned action
from her.
630
00:31:34,760 --> 00:31:36,240
Actually, it might be, yeah.
I think the the.
631
00:31:36,280 --> 00:31:38,800
Learned action is that you have
learned.
632
00:31:38,800 --> 00:31:42,880
Thankfully your musical taste
more from her, but also you
633
00:31:42,880 --> 00:31:46,000
broaden them like you listen to
country and you listen to yeah.
634
00:31:46,360 --> 00:31:47,480
You just don't listen to country
and.
635
00:31:47,480 --> 00:31:49,440
Williams Yeah, I do.
No, no, I do now.
636
00:31:49,720 --> 00:31:52,200
You do now, Yeah.
I never did before and I heard
637
00:31:52,200 --> 00:31:53,360
people talk.
It's so good.
638
00:31:53,360 --> 00:31:55,760
It's heartfelt, all this.
I'm like, Nah, it's hillbilly
639
00:31:55,760 --> 00:31:57,760
hit shit.
It's amazing.
640
00:31:57,760 --> 00:32:00,520
It's.
And yet I started listening to
641
00:32:00,520 --> 00:32:01,720
it and.
It's like now it.
642
00:32:01,880 --> 00:32:04,960
Touches me.
Well no, and the reason I do is
643
00:32:04,960 --> 00:32:10,280
because of you.
You have expanded and I bought
644
00:32:10,280 --> 00:32:13,360
songs.
I What's the one about the the
645
00:32:13,360 --> 00:32:17,120
really racist one about Japan?
That's not racist.
646
00:32:17,120 --> 00:32:18,720
Made in Japan is not racist at
all.
647
00:32:18,720 --> 00:32:22,560
Oh, OK With Buck Owens, it's
about a World War 2 veteran who
648
00:32:22,560 --> 00:32:24,760
marries a woman and then she's
already been arranged to be
649
00:32:24,760 --> 00:32:27,320
married in Japan.
And then he can't marry her
650
00:32:27,440 --> 00:32:28,840
because she's been arranged to
be married.
651
00:32:29,160 --> 00:32:30,040
What does he call her?
He.
652
00:32:31,280 --> 00:32:34,160
Doesn't call her anyway.
It's my Japanese something or
653
00:32:34,160 --> 00:32:39,400
other Lotus blossom or.
Refers to her as a woman.
654
00:32:39,400 --> 00:32:42,200
Like, I don't think that it has
any racial connotations to him.
655
00:32:42,560 --> 00:32:43,560
Oh, OK.
Yeah.
656
00:32:43,680 --> 00:32:47,640
Well, I I think that no, maybe
more in today's life than Ben
657
00:32:47,640 --> 00:32:50,680
and and and maybe I'm just being
silly, which I think.
658
00:32:50,720 --> 00:32:53,360
You are, yeah.
Yeah, well, you know how that's
659
00:32:53,440 --> 00:32:56,000
how I play stuff, but.
No, but that song is phenomenal.
660
00:32:56,600 --> 00:33:00,040
Yeah, that's a very that's a
very heartbreaking song.
661
00:33:00,160 --> 00:33:01,760
You know what?
You know this is the reality of
662
00:33:01,960 --> 00:33:04,600
what happened after.
When you play that, you know
663
00:33:04,600 --> 00:33:06,760
what I think of.
You've never seen the play, Miss
664
00:33:06,800 --> 00:33:09,760
Saigon.
No, but you've told me about it.
665
00:33:10,120 --> 00:33:15,200
But it's but it's very, very
similar to that and it ends that
666
00:33:15,200 --> 00:33:17,840
way in the very end.
And the wife and I saw it in
667
00:33:17,840 --> 00:33:20,520
London and it was like one of
those things that you don't want
668
00:33:20,520 --> 00:33:22,160
people to see you when the
lights come up because you're
669
00:33:22,160 --> 00:33:25,560
crying, you know.
And it's a very like heart
670
00:33:25,560 --> 00:33:27,920
wrenched, touching thing that
you know.
671
00:33:28,040 --> 00:33:30,680
And I love that kind of music
too when it's you know and the
672
00:33:30,680 --> 00:33:33,800
same thing.
I love Bernstein or certain
673
00:33:33,800 --> 00:33:36,640
pieces.
Glenn Miller in the mood.
674
00:33:36,640 --> 00:33:39,960
Benny Goodman Oh my gosh, you
hear that clarinet?
675
00:33:39,960 --> 00:33:41,720
And it just doesn't.
Doesn't make sense.
676
00:33:41,800 --> 00:33:44,840
Glenn Miller.
Yeah, well, no, he is trombone.
677
00:33:45,720 --> 00:33:50,680
Benny Goodman is, is my.
My dad was a big band guy
678
00:33:51,000 --> 00:33:52,560
always.
Oh, he was, yeah.
679
00:33:52,840 --> 00:33:56,520
Just crazy about that stuff.
You know, we used to always get
680
00:33:56,520 --> 00:34:00,520
stuck with watching Lawrence
Welk or Guy Lombardo at New
681
00:34:00,520 --> 00:34:04,920
Year's Eve, and he get hammered
and and we get in fights over
682
00:34:04,920 --> 00:34:07,120
it.
And you know, what is that shit?
683
00:34:07,200 --> 00:34:09,400
Why do we got to listen to that
again?
684
00:34:09,560 --> 00:34:10,600
But then you get older and
you're going.
685
00:34:10,600 --> 00:34:12,000
That's how much?
How valuable is it?
686
00:34:12,400 --> 00:34:16,280
No, that most of their music was
trash. the IT was the musicians
687
00:34:16,280 --> 00:34:19,239
like that.
If they had somebody like a Guy
688
00:34:19,239 --> 00:34:21,840
Lombardo, I mean if they had
somebody like a Benny Hill or.
689
00:34:22,080 --> 00:34:24,199
A.
Benny Goodman, Benny Hill.
690
00:34:24,320 --> 00:34:26,440
That'd be funny.
Yeah, Organized.
691
00:34:26,560 --> 00:34:29,679
I mean, if they had those people
playing, those people were like,
692
00:34:30,199 --> 00:34:32,480
you know, there are people.
What's the one I saw that was
693
00:34:32,480 --> 00:34:37,199
ripping on a on a guitar and I
was just like shocked by how God
694
00:34:37,199 --> 00:34:39,159
is from.
He's from the 40s and he was
695
00:34:39,159 --> 00:34:42,800
just playing a box guitar.
And I mean, not not like Glen
696
00:34:42,800 --> 00:34:44,400
Campbell.
I mean he's really good too.
697
00:34:44,400 --> 00:34:46,199
He was.
He was really, really just
698
00:34:46,199 --> 00:34:48,239
amazingly touching songs, you
know?
699
00:34:48,239 --> 00:34:50,320
I mean.
The best ball was really, really
700
00:34:50,360 --> 00:34:52,040
good at instrumentals.
Yeah.
701
00:34:52,880 --> 00:34:54,920
The original, yeah.
Well then there's Buddy.
702
00:34:55,239 --> 00:35:00,200
Is it Buddy Rich that plays the?
Problems.
703
00:35:00,960 --> 00:35:02,200
Maybe.
Or is that Buddy Guy?
704
00:35:03,640 --> 00:35:05,720
Guy Buddy Other.
No, one of the buddies.
705
00:35:05,720 --> 00:35:07,320
I don't freaking know one or the
other.
706
00:35:07,440 --> 00:35:08,400
I can't.
I can't.
707
00:35:08,640 --> 00:35:11,120
I'm not good with musicians.
Yeah, they're too good.
708
00:35:11,120 --> 00:35:12,760
They're.
All named Buddy you know.
709
00:35:12,960 --> 00:35:17,000
No, yeah, but I think we're
coming up on our time.
710
00:35:17,080 --> 00:35:20,040
We got a couple minutes left
here and we're gonna do much.
711
00:35:20,400 --> 00:35:22,760
Some SO music was a good topic.
I liked it.
712
00:35:22,760 --> 00:35:24,280
I think that we had a good time
with this.
713
00:35:24,560 --> 00:35:27,160
Well, I would say if anybody has
any topics that they'd like us
714
00:35:27,160 --> 00:35:30,960
to cover, like anything, whether
it's filthy or not or whether
715
00:35:30,960 --> 00:35:33,960
it's really personal, who cares?
I talk about anything for the
716
00:35:33,960 --> 00:35:37,160
most part and we'll and if you
want Zach to talk, we can make
717
00:35:37,160 --> 00:35:39,640
him talk too.
Yeah, we'll we'll talk about me
718
00:35:39,640 --> 00:35:41,800
at some point, maybe one day.
Right.
719
00:35:42,680 --> 00:35:44,520
We'll do.
We'll do a record of your
720
00:35:44,520 --> 00:35:47,920
mother.
I was thinking about doing a
721
00:35:47,920 --> 00:35:49,360
couple of themselves with her
the other day actually.
722
00:35:49,360 --> 00:35:51,120
I think that would be good that
that would be.
723
00:35:51,440 --> 00:35:52,760
I think she would, really.
Enjoy that.
724
00:35:53,040 --> 00:35:54,600
I think.
I think she would get a kick out
725
00:35:54,600 --> 00:35:57,560
of it, I think.
And even if you just taped it
726
00:35:57,560 --> 00:35:59,680
for your own personal whatever,
you don't have to pull it out
727
00:35:59,680 --> 00:36:02,160
there or something.
We could, we could, you could
728
00:36:02,160 --> 00:36:05,800
actually use it to salt the
other ones too, as long as she's
729
00:36:05,800 --> 00:36:08,080
OK with that.
Because not everybody has this
730
00:36:09,280 --> 00:36:12,440
narcissistic view about life the
way I do, you know, at.
731
00:36:12,720 --> 00:36:15,160
Least it's you have the self
evaluation of it.
732
00:36:15,680 --> 00:36:17,080
Though oh God, yeah, I am.
I am.
733
00:36:17,120 --> 00:36:20,160
You know, I that's The funny
thing is, is that I can get to
734
00:36:20,160 --> 00:36:22,960
the point where I know what I'm
doing wrong, but the hell if I'm
735
00:36:22,960 --> 00:36:24,920
gonna do anything about it.
A lot of people.
736
00:36:25,320 --> 00:36:28,240
Why do you?
Why are you driving 130 miles an
737
00:36:28,240 --> 00:36:29,720
hour?
Because I want to get there
738
00:36:29,720 --> 00:36:31,080
faster.
It's wrong.
739
00:36:31,080 --> 00:36:32,640
I know.
It's dangerous.
740
00:36:32,680 --> 00:36:35,880
I know.
Are you going to change that?
741
00:36:36,200 --> 00:36:41,680
No.
There's some respect, yeah, but
742
00:36:41,680 --> 00:36:43,880
it's like.
Yeah, I'm self aware that that's
743
00:36:43,880 --> 00:36:46,480
stupid and I could pay
consequences and all this other
744
00:36:46,480 --> 00:36:49,080
stuff, you know?
But there's also levels of risk
745
00:36:49,080 --> 00:36:50,480
too.
Like I don't drink and drive
746
00:36:50,480 --> 00:36:54,360
anymore, you know?
Yeah, you know.
747
00:36:54,720 --> 00:36:59,480
Yeah, that's that's a bad thing.
But I think this was great and
748
00:36:59,480 --> 00:37:03,040
as always, see us on Spotify.
We have AQ and A section.
749
00:37:03,360 --> 00:37:06,480
Do you have any ideas?
Any questions, Any answers?
750
00:37:06,480 --> 00:37:10,000
So if you have answers to our
questions, shoot, shoot from the
751
00:37:10,000 --> 00:37:12,040
hip and don't aim.
Yeah.
752
00:37:12,040 --> 00:37:14,480
And if anybody knows Joe Rogan,
you should mention our name on
753
00:37:14,480 --> 00:37:15,520
there.
We're all right.
754
00:37:15,520 --> 00:37:18,640
This is day three of mentioning
his name on this podcast.
755
00:37:18,880 --> 00:37:22,920
That's his sponsorship.
I think that it'll be 200 more
756
00:37:22,920 --> 00:37:24,480
days.
I think we should send him an
757
00:37:24,520 --> 00:37:26,600
invoice.
I think we should send him more
758
00:37:26,800 --> 00:37:28,160
invoices.
Yeah, we've already sent him a
759
00:37:28,160 --> 00:37:31,280
couple, but yeah, I think going
and I like that idea, might be
760
00:37:31,280 --> 00:37:34,200
more responsive.
But everybody have a great night
761
00:37:34,200 --> 00:37:37,920
and I hope the new year, the 1st
10 days of it has been treating
762
00:37:37,920 --> 00:37:41,040
you well.
It is 1/10/2024 and I hope you
763
00:37:41,040 --> 00:37:43,840
have a nice 1/11/2020.
Four.
764
00:37:43,840 --> 00:37:44,760
So when we, so we.