Back To Back

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Welcome back to another episode
of a record of my father.

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This week we're going to be
doing a check in.

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You just had a birthday, didn't?
You.

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Oh my God, I forgot about that.
Yeah, you're old.

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I got this new.
I got this new T-shirt.

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Did you notice that?
That is November 16th.

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I'm 64, man.
You know I want Social Security.

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You believe that shit?
You're so old.

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I just, yeah, I take that I I
signed up for me.

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It's a it's a psycho thing.
Yeah.

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Anyway, what?
Do what do you think about now

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that you're taking Social
Security?

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How does that make you feel?
Well, I think I left my last job

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in December of 2022.
No one.

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Yeah.
Yeah.

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One, so I've been, I haven't
worked for almost 2 years and I

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I was kind of kicking around
little ideas with people and

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I've done stuff, you know gotten
back involved with companies and

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I get dragged here and there and
and I mean, I really feel like

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I'm retired.
What I'm looking for now is the

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needle on my compass is sort of
spinning around in a circle.

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It's like I'm on the North Pole
and I got to move away from that

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and I got to get like move in a
direction for something that

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makes me you know when I was
talking to you out there and we

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were talking about you're like,
well what do you want to do And

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I'm going like I want to play
piano.

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Well that fell off the freaking
table in about 20 minutes and

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then I'm late latest is jujitsu
and I'm looking at that.

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So I I I'll go take a few
lessons and see if you know I

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don't break my face and.
You look at my face.

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Have you signed up at all?
No, no.

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I saw a couple of classes that
are close and there's a one

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that's really neat that looks
like it.

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I the thing I don't want to do
is I don't want to go to one of

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these little, you know, Mr. Mr.
Kim's, you know karate places

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where they teach jiu jitsu and
there's a bunch of eight-year

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olds in there.
Because then it's going to be

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like I'm a freaking pervert and
I I just ain't going to do that.

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That just.
I just can't.

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That's just so freaking creepy.
It just.

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I was thinking, you know, I
mean, you know what's funny?

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It's like, I wonder what entry
level martial arts classes.

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I was going to say the entry
level martial arts classes.

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Yeah, like how it can't be that
difficult to find adult level

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classes.
Yeah, but there's no way they

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would accept you not knowing
that you're the age that you

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are.
There's no way that it would be

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like.
Well, yeah, I want to be a Scout

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master, but I couldn't.
So and then I got kicked out of

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the priesthood.
So now I think I think I want to

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get.
Corrupt Taekwondo now.

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Yeah, well, let's let's, let's
joke about people's horror

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because that's all you can do,
right?

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That is, that is crazy.
Wow.

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So jiu jitsu, that's the next
thing.

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Yeah, that's just something.
I mean, there's a lot of things.

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I know a lot of people wanted to
get into that and they really,

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really enjoying it.
I think it's a well the thing.

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That's stuck with me has been
the working out.

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That's that's really what stuck
with me, you know, I mean the

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longest in between workouts
since I, since we started doing

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the whole gym downstairs where
it's in my backyard and it's

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like I can't really walk away.
From it two years ago.

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That was two years ago, right?
Yeah, yeah.

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It's like no longer than, say,
810 days.

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And usually that's because we
went to Antarctica, you know?

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Yeah.
And then and then you guys made

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me do yoga.
Oh yeah, yeah, on the boat when

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we got.
The sweaty, fat drunk.

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Yeah, that was me.
I was like, what smells like an

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ABC store in here?
I was like, oh, oh, I know what

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it is.
Dad, how are you?

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Oh.
Oh my gosh, man, that was that

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was an incredible time.
But yeah, so I've always

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actually been interested in
jujitsu as well.

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That's that's funny.
You tell me how it is.

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You tell me how it is.
What about Tai Chi?

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You ever, you ever think about
Tai Chi?

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I was thinking about that the
other day.

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I think that's more mind and
mellowness and concentration and

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things like that.
What's the slowest martial art?

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That's what it.
Is I am so ADHD that I can't.

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I don't have that capability to
focus.

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That would be amazing.
Well, you.

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Should work.
You should work on it.

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I'm 64.
Do you think if I could have

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fixed it, I would have fixed it
like 30 years ago?

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Yeah, exactly.
And the way that I figured out

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how to fix it is to go into
positions and jobs where they

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need you to do 100 things at
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Gotcha.
I'm good at that.

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You know, I can't do one thing
good.

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No way.
But you give me 50 things to

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think about and I can.
I can get them all started and

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all rolled and all moving
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I'm, I'm, I'm really, that's
just makes me happy, you know,

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just.
Like somebody that believes in

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multitasking, right?
That it actually exists.

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Well, yeah, I think that I don't
want to say that I'm actually

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doing two things at once.
But I mean I I remember some of

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my favorite stories from years
ago when I got the first

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professional job or first thing
is I would have.

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I mean it goes back to when I
was a kid and I used to get a

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list.
I would have 10 different things

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and they they, some of them
could only be done one at a time

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to go to the next one.
But, but when I got in

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professional life you would you
would start a process on

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something, start this ball
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this was pulling microfiche and
then you had to take it over and

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hand it to somebody to get it
copied.

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You just.
Can't complete the whole task

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and.
You had a piece of paper and

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then you had to call the
customer to tell them that you,

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you know, you're supposed to
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tell them that you're working on
the order.

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You got it.
You build the information, it's

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in for copy.
You'll you'll call them at the

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end of the day to tell them when
it's going out, you know and

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then you and then then it's
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Then you have to go to the other
another section of the SEC Blvd.

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and you get paper documents.
And then you would pull that for

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somebody else's order.
And then somebody else would

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want research and they would ask
for specific types of things.

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And so you'd be thinking in the
background.

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Sounds like, yeah.
It's cool as shit because you're

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everything is just sort of like,
you know, it's just it's it's

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just it's like a kaleidoscope.
It's just like wow and

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everything's moving and you're
just like moving you're you're

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moving with it.
And for me that my mind was

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busy.
I mean the worst thing.

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You it was busy, It's not busy
anymore.

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Saying it's not busy.
No, no, no.

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That's the that's the problem.
You let me not be busy and.

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Trouble.
Yeah.

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No, I don't know, You know, much
like anybody is.

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Well, no, no, not like me, I'm.
Bad I'm.

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Just a bad person.
It just rises up.

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And yeah, well, you got to
overcome it, you know, You, you

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look for the things that don't
work for you and you, you know,

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and you recognize them over
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I mean, not everybody's lucky
enough to be able to recognize

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what their faults are.
I mean, I don't do a damn thing

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about my faults, but I know what
they are.

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At least you know what they are,
right?

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I know what they.
Are I can point them out, yeah,

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you did that.
I did that.

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I did that.
You know that.

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I mean, I'm really good at
someone comes to me and it's

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like, that's why I think that's
why I've been married so long

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is, 'cause she would, like, look
at me and she'll say something

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and I'll just readily tell her
that this is what I did.

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And it was, you know, I I'm
sorry.

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And she was look at me like,
yeah, I won't.

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I mean, I I'm, I I genuinely.
Change, yeah.

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I do, I I care and I try and I
and and and things, yeah.

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No, no, no for sure.
I think half of the battle is

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the recognition process cause a
lot of people don't and they're

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not willing to.
I don't argue the point well.

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It's goes back to my, my, my,
the the integrity thing that is,

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you know, it's integral to any
business partner, any person or

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any one of my friends.
It's like we, I, you know you.

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There's no reason for me to lie.
Yeah.

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Like about anything except for
you know hey does this dress

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look good on me You know.
But beyond that it's it's which

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I always would My my comment to
to my wife was always like,

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well, do you want me to tell you
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That.
Means don't you want me to lie?

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Yeah, and that means don't buy
it right, 'cause I'm very I'm,

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I'm, I'm very direct.
That's my problem.

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Well, that's something that I
got from you.

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It's really, really good, but
not all the time.

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Exactly, yeah.
It's.

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Got it's got some issues yeah it
does it does and and the the the

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problem is to know when to be
direct and forceful and when not

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and even in my advanced age I.
I don't know it.

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I think that, yeah.
Because you always think that

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people want to hear the truth.
You always think that.

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And then you're always thinking
of direct applications of the

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people that you're talking to.
But sometimes not everything is

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direct.
I mean, sometimes you have that

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second trial.
Of and also and also.

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I mean, I'm loud.
Yeah.

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So when you ask me my opinion
and I come across my opinions,

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this, this and this, some people
are frightened by that.

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They feel like I'm attacking
them when I'm just like I'm

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passionate about what I do.
So I don't know why that.

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I mean, to me it's.
Just like.

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You know, for being.
Angry.

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For being aggressive, for being
mean, for being loud and and it

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and also have a little hearing
issue.

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So maybe.
Just a little bit, yeah.

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Actually, just a little bit.
I'm right on the border, so I

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got the hearing aids and of
course I don't wear them, but

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that that's another.
Episode knowing that they're

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there, that you could use them.
That's enough.

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That's.
I think that's enough.

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I think that's as far as you
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See, I was going to wait.
I was going to wait until they,

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I mean, I brought the most
advanced current ones that you

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can wear.
They're all hyper quiet and

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small and everything.
Oh.

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Yeah, yeah.
They're the best in the market

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and I'm going to wait till
they're old technology and then

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I'm going to go buy a new pair
and I'm going to wear those for

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like a month and they're going
to be like, yeah, it's about

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time and then I'm going to take
them off.

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Do they have?
So what is it?

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It's like those are earbuds or
something.

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Pretty much they go over the
over the outside of the ear.

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They're about they're only.
About go over the outside.

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They're not ones that are just
in your.

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Ear, because they are the
microphone that captures what is

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being said.
And then what they do is they

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amplify it and then they bounce
it around and you have this

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little thing that sticks down
the canal of your ear.

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And that's what says hey, we're
here.

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OK.
You know, or whatever.

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Yeah, maybe that's not what it
always.

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You might have been an
audiologist in your past life.

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I don't.
Know.

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No, no, no.
Well, she explained it to me.

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OK, gotcha.
Yeah, it wasn't I.

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Mean you were curious as well.
You're like, why is do they

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always have that?
Yeah, what the hell?

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Yeah.
What is this?

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They always have the outside
thing.

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I'm always wondering like why do
they have the outside thing?

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Well, how do they catch the?
They have to catch the sound, so

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they have to have a super high
thing speaker.

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But also you got to remember,
they have to like they have to

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pick it up and put it back into
your ear.

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They have to put it louder, not
too loud.

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They have to, you know.
Well.

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The horn, the horn that passes
by you or the car that passes by

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you is louder than your voice.
So you know, there's there's all

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that stuff that goes with it,
so.

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I see that and I see that issue
definitely.

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Yeah.
I wonder what you mean.

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Microphone is like for one of
those things, 'cause there's

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some way new.
Yeah, I don't know.

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It's.
Interesting.

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Well, they've gotten, they've
gotten really competitive since

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they don't, I think they allowed
Costco I think can sell them

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now.
Oh yeah, A.

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Bunch a bunch of stores can now
sell them without prescription,

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which I mean it's always been
sort of a catch 22.

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You can get higher end ones with
a prescription.

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But a lot of a lot of people
that don't have money and they

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wouldn't manufacture the lower
end ones can't afford to go buy

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thousands of dollars in hearing
aids.

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They're like. $5000 right?
They're really expensive, yeah,

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I mean, but a lot of people want
them to work good enough because

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they don't to have basically a
car, you know, where the price

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of a freaking car or or or or or
a vacation or whatever.

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To definitely, yeah.
To put.

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Into their ears.
And it's like, you know, when

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you're when you're tight with
money.

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I mean, we were tight with
money.

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My, my old man never would have
got those, you know?

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It'd be like, well, better to go
down.

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Better to scream at you to speak
up, he might have.

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Had an issue as well, but you
you can always put the funnels

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in your ears or something like
that like in.

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Yeah, that's that's what we did.
Horton hears a who?

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Yeah, look at that.
The Who people, Yeah.

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We put the funnels in and then
we pour liquor down it.

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It's a good old brain.
Liquor on the brain, right?

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Liquor on the brain.
Where's the brain go?

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What the hell?
I think it's liquor on the

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brain, but oh, anyway, what did
I what I you mentioned something

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earlier that was before this
started that sort of made me go.

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Getting the kudos from people
saying that they started talking

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to their fathers more intimately
because of listening to this

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podcast.
Yeah, no idea.

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That is the reward that I've
been looking for for this for

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the longest time and hearing a
bunch of people talk about that

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and about how their
relationships have.

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Been so you don't give a crap
about our together time.

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It's no, I really don't do it
for other people, to be honest.

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I didn't either, so it was.
Really, what I was doing for

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other people, because I'm an
altruist, right?

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I think that's.
Right.

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Me too.
I would never.

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I would never want to.
I'm not trying to advance my own

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thing.
I'm.

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It's all about that.
It's all about other.

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It's all about, yeah.
But it is cool.

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No, no, I mean that's.
That's very cool.

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That and and and here let let me
bask for 1001 it had done and

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and and the and the glory of the
9000 million people that we've

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helped through passing this
around.

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I think it's 7.
Anyway, I think it's 9900

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million, yeah.
It's, it's, Yeah.

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Yeah, but no, it's it's been a
it's been a journey even since

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last year hearing about what
you've been talking about and

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after you're being retired and
where to go and to see.

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The different stuff.
You've been what you've been

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doing and how it's all recorded
now in this little, this little

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way and I think that's.
Really.

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Well, you had, you have a
history.

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Well, I mean, this is when we
started this.

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I mean, I wish.
I mean I wish that I had done

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this with my father because I
don't.

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I mean we, I can go into all the
different things that our

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relationship was.
But that's that That's silly.

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I would have liked to know what
his history was.

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I would like to know what it was
like to be in World War 2 and

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hit the beaches at Lady in
Okinawa.

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I would like to know, you know,
that stuff to me is like, whoa,

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you know, you don't, you know,
and being in a foxhole and a guy

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gets killed next to you, stuff
like that.

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It's just like what?
What does that?

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I mean, that was a generation
and they did not speak of it.

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And then he was in Korea, too.
Yeah, the same with World War

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One.
That was really when they they'd

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never talked about.
Anything like that.

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And then there was shell.
But even after that World War

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Two, people started to realize
that you can't really be 18

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years old and kill 50 people and
be okay.

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Or watch 50 people be killed.
Or that or that or.

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Missing and that number of
horrific accounts.

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Yeah.
And it was surprising that I

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think that was one of the first
times in history that we're

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like, wow, men aren't invincible
against this mental health

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crisis that.
Oh yeah.

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Has been provoked.
Yeah.

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Many of us have seen first hand
so.

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No, exactly.
You.

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I mean, you, you live with them
for a long time.

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Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Yeah.

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But anyway, I mean, I think
about why do we talk?

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Why do we?
Why do we have, why do we have?

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Why do you talk to me?
Why do I talk to you?

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Yeah.
Why do you talk to me?

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That's.
A good question.

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I'm putting you on the well.
I think you always raised me in

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a in a way in which I was always
comfortable.

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I was never, there was never a
standoffish kind of point where

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I was like, I why?
Why would I talk to this guy?

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Why would I do that?
I think I always had intent and

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you always received it well.
And I think that same thing with

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mom as well.
It was always an open place to

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talk about what I was going
through and what I was

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experiencing.
And I think that's why we have

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maintained this relationship for
so long and we'll continue to

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maintain it, right.
Yeah.

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Yeah.
I think that's the right way I.

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Think so?
I think it definitely is.

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I think having a different place
for your people to talk about

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what they're going through is
always going to be the better of

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the two.
The.

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The latter being not not being
in a comfortable space, right?

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And I don't think that that is
proper.

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I don't think we even deserves
that people.

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I think generations share
different things.

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So you look at that and you're
always wondering, it's like

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there, you know, there's a
million books on parenting and

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all that shit and stuff that's,
you know, and it's like I don't.

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And so I I never saw one that
said, hey, when your kid asks

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you to do a a podcast, you
should do it.

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I I didn't.
I didn't find that book.

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I just.
Got tired of hearing stories.

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I think that's what it was.
Yeah, you heard him all the time

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and you're like, I'm going to
document him, so I can't.

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I don't have to.
Listen to it again and I.

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Don't know.
It wasn't only that.

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It was like each time the story
changes just a little.

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Bit he was, he was. 4 feet 7.
No, he was 6 foot.

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Two.
He was almost 8 feet tall.

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Oh my God.
His hands were as they were.

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They were.
They were a little bigger than

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mine.
His hands, They were as big as

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Catcher's mitts.
His shoes.

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Were on the wrong feet.
Yeah, they were on the wrong

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feet.
He wants them backwards.

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But yeah, no, I think the reason
why we still talk is because I

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grew up in an environment to
where it was always all right.

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It was always an acceptable
thing.

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There's never shame either.
I think that's a really big

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part, too.
Is that?

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Yeah.
If you feel ashamed for

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something the way that you feel,
and then you're not, and you're

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not going to be very receptive,
you're not going to want to talk

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about it.
And I don't think that there

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ever was a shame, come to think
of.

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I think it was very late.
Shame.

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I think there's, there's, it
hasn't always been easy.

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Oh, of course, and I mean for
for for any of us.

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It hasn't, it hasn't been it
hasn't been easy for any of us.

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But I think that I think that
it's that we the one thing that

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I will always do no matter what.
If if if anything ever goes

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wrong.
If there is some dialogue

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between us that makes you that I
do or that something else gets

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done.
And you hear and you're in a

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distance and you judge me for
that and you and you get.

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I will always try to get you
back to the table to talk.

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Because I think that I think
that you can, you can lose

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people by not communicating.
It's funny that you mention

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that.
Yeah, no, continue.

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Sorry.
You you get close to people and

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you stay friends with them and
then something happens and you

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get disparate and then you sit
back and and you both wait and

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then the only thing that happens
is is you just you lose them.

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Yeah.
And and I will not lose you that

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that's not that's not in going
to happen just same thing with

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Valerie.
It's not going to happen.

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I'm not, no matter what.
I will take the slap in the

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face.
The punt I mean, and I'm I'm

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usually the one that's wrong.
I mean usually the one screwed

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up.
I'm OK with that.

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I am OK with that as long as
there's communication.

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The thing that the thing that I
cannot I cannot understand and

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and I've never been able to
understand with with it is when

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people if you close me out.
Yeah, I think that that's

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something.
Well, people are too proud to go

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back and to analyze the
situation.

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And I think, yeah, yeah.
Then again, that's something you

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taught me.
And it's like being proud is

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really about having those tough
conversations, not avoiding

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them.
And I think that that was always

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something as well.
And going ahead first, even

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though no matter how
uncomfortable it's going to be,

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how terrible the conversation is
going to be, it's never as bad

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as losing that person forever.
And I think that that is I.

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Think that's it?
Yeah, I think you, you, you, you

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hit on that.
Exactly.

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You know, that's that's the
thing that always makes me go

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like, oh, what's the, you know,
I'm trying to remember what the

429
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point?
Where is the point?

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How did it?
How did you get to it?

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How did you arrive at it?
How bad is it?

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Is it really that bad?
And then you know and you can't

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wait.
No, you can't.

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You can't wait.
You can't wait at all.

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You gotta.
You gotta.

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You gotta.
Approach it right away because

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you will lose people in an
interim if you if you ignore

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them, you cannot do that.
You have to come back.

439
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You have to go after them.
You have to.

440
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You have to just figure it out,
'cause if you can't figure it

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out, you know and and life's
really too short to go through

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or get to the end of your life
and have any of these that are

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uncapped.
Unless they hate that or

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undeserving of your attention
or.

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Well, yeah.
Yeah.

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There's there.
There is.

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That you have to there is that
learn to realize that, which is

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something that I think we're
always learning about,

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especially with people that are
not family right, But.

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Yeah, well, you do sports to
earth.

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You, you, you burn down their
houses.

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You, you know you.
You salt the earth after them.

453
00:22:11,720 --> 00:22:14,080
You you know you.
You shoot all their animals.

454
00:22:14,080 --> 00:22:19,680
You you you spray the you spray
the clouds over their land that

455
00:22:19,680 --> 00:22:21,240
will make it turn a different
color.

456
00:22:21,520 --> 00:22:24,800
You, you, you build a big thing
like they did on The Simpsons to

457
00:22:24,800 --> 00:22:27,160
block out the sun on their part
of the earth.

458
00:22:27,240 --> 00:22:29,640
And I think that's those are
kind of the main things you

459
00:22:29,640 --> 00:22:34,680
could do and and stop water and
there's a few other things but.

460
00:22:35,600 --> 00:22:38,200
Just to maybe a half a dozen or
more, right?

461
00:22:38,800 --> 00:22:41,360
But what was I thinking about?
I think even more so today.

462
00:22:41,360 --> 00:22:44,880
People are so proud and not
willing to have difficult

463
00:22:44,880 --> 00:22:48,280
conversations even though the
the ready access is so much more

464
00:22:48,560 --> 00:22:51,720
present, which I think is funny.
So that always is is something

465
00:22:51,720 --> 00:22:54,520
that I find interesting.
Is it?

466
00:22:54,680 --> 00:22:59,760
Is it weird that so much of
communication is through text?

467
00:23:00,040 --> 00:23:05,040
Yeah, the subjectiveness of a
text message is incredible.

468
00:23:05,160 --> 00:23:10,800
I mean, I type the word poop
into it and I texted someone and

469
00:23:10,800 --> 00:23:15,720
it's like, what does that mean?
Context.

470
00:23:16,240 --> 00:23:19,040
Yeah, context of that.
I mean, I'm weird as it.

471
00:23:19,040 --> 00:23:20,560
Is.
I think that's when our society

472
00:23:20,560 --> 00:23:22,960
started dying.
And once when we started texting

473
00:23:22,960 --> 00:23:24,720
each other, Yeah, and then you.
Stop.

474
00:23:25,280 --> 00:23:27,120
These phone calls are.
Coming straight forward, yeah.

475
00:23:27,360 --> 00:23:29,720
That's why I mainly call.
I don't, I don't do the whole

476
00:23:29,720 --> 00:23:32,320
texting thing.
I mainly call people, 'cause I

477
00:23:32,320 --> 00:23:36,520
can have a 2 minute phone call
and I can have a 45 minute text

478
00:23:36,520 --> 00:23:38,320
message.
I like the yeah, right.

479
00:23:38,320 --> 00:23:40,960
Yeah, yeah.
No.

480
00:23:40,960 --> 00:23:43,000
I always call first and then
I'll text after if they don't

481
00:23:43,000 --> 00:23:43,800
answer.
I don't.

482
00:23:43,840 --> 00:23:45,560
You know what's funny is the
voicemail.

483
00:23:45,840 --> 00:23:47,640
I never leave a voicemail.
Ever.

484
00:23:47,840 --> 00:23:51,080
I never do that anymore.
I never do voicemails.

485
00:23:51,880 --> 00:23:55,000
I I don't.
Because I I don't.

486
00:23:55,080 --> 00:23:59,640
And the reason I don't is
because I think that you saw

487
00:23:59,840 --> 00:24:02,560
that I called.
You'll know why I called.

488
00:24:02,920 --> 00:24:05,360
And the only reason I leave a
voicemail is like, if you call

489
00:24:05,360 --> 00:24:08,240
me up and you say, hey, I'm
trying to decide green or blue,

490
00:24:08,920 --> 00:24:10,360
I will call and leave a message
green.

491
00:24:11,400 --> 00:24:16,680
The thing I hate is if you call
back and you say, call JA, call

492
00:24:16,680 --> 00:24:20,760
me back and you're like, dude, I
just needed a simple answer.

493
00:24:21,000 --> 00:24:22,360
Yeah, when it.
When it.

494
00:24:22,360 --> 00:24:25,120
When, when, when it's a simple
answer, give a simple answer.

495
00:24:25,120 --> 00:24:28,440
That's sort of my thing, you
know, Wow.

496
00:24:28,440 --> 00:24:30,040
The.
Death of a voicemail, I think,

497
00:24:30,040 --> 00:24:31,480
is something we're definitely
going to see.

498
00:24:32,000 --> 00:24:34,360
I'm surprised the voicemail box
even exists anymore, to be

499
00:24:34,400 --> 00:24:36,200
honest.
I don't know.

500
00:24:36,200 --> 00:24:37,960
I don't.
Know I mean you know you one of

501
00:24:37,960 --> 00:24:40,400
your uncles that doesn't work I.
Think it's.

502
00:24:40,400 --> 00:24:42,760
Full or he didn't cut it on.
I don't even.

503
00:24:42,840 --> 00:24:44,360
I think it he hasn't.
What?

504
00:24:44,400 --> 00:24:46,960
What does it mean when you
haven't set it up yet?

505
00:24:47,440 --> 00:24:50,120
I don't know what that means
because doesn't a voicemail box

506
00:24:50,120 --> 00:24:51,320
just automatically come with a
phone?

507
00:24:51,320 --> 00:24:53,560
Number The thing is, is I think
that he he can see the phone

508
00:24:53,560 --> 00:24:55,320
numbers that come in so he can
call back.

509
00:24:56,960 --> 00:24:59,160
I I don't because when I hear he
always.

510
00:24:59,160 --> 00:25:03,240
Calls me back right afterwards.
So I'm like, OK, so it does this

511
00:25:03,240 --> 00:25:06,360
and then and then I say hey and
it says the voicemail hasn't

512
00:25:06,360 --> 00:25:09,200
been set up and then like an
hour later he calls me back, you

513
00:25:09,200 --> 00:25:11,560
know, so.
But what is like, OK, so hasn't

514
00:25:11,560 --> 00:25:14,760
been set up because I know when
it's full it's full.

515
00:25:14,840 --> 00:25:16,560
But like when it hasn't been set
up?

516
00:25:17,360 --> 00:25:19,520
Because I I've never set up a
voicemail box.

517
00:25:19,520 --> 00:25:22,120
I don't know about you, but I've
never set it went up, no.

518
00:25:22,240 --> 00:25:24,040
Oh, I have.
That's when you go in and you

519
00:25:24,040 --> 00:25:25,640
go.
Hi, this is Phil Brown.

520
00:25:25,640 --> 00:25:27,360
You've called our house at da,
da, da da da da.

521
00:25:27,720 --> 00:25:28,960
We're not here right now.
Please.

522
00:25:28,960 --> 00:25:31,200
But that's like a message, an
outgoing message, though I don't

523
00:25:31,200 --> 00:25:33,920
know if that's necessarily.
No, that when you answer the

524
00:25:33,920 --> 00:25:36,360
phone, yeah, that's what you do
to set it up.

525
00:25:37,000 --> 00:25:38,920
That's exactly how you do.
It I've never done that though.

526
00:25:39,280 --> 00:25:42,360
I just have the robot.
First, how'd you do it on your

527
00:25:42,440 --> 00:25:44,680
cell phone?
The robot person just answers it

528
00:25:44,680 --> 00:25:47,400
the built in.
Robot it It doesn't say hi.

529
00:25:47,400 --> 00:25:48,840
This is Zach.
Please leave a message.

530
00:25:48,880 --> 00:25:50,560
No, no, no.
It's just the robot person.

531
00:25:51,160 --> 00:25:52,240
Oh wow.
Yeah.

532
00:25:52,400 --> 00:25:54,560
That's why I'm wondering.
You may have had an it probably

533
00:25:54,560 --> 00:25:57,480
you probably said auto answer.
Maybe.

534
00:25:57,480 --> 00:25:58,720
Maybe.
Maybe that's what it is.

535
00:25:59,000 --> 00:26:01,840
I guess.
It could be, it could be ND

536
00:26:01,880 --> 00:26:07,080
gosh.
You got Can you tell can I tell

537
00:26:07,080 --> 00:26:09,960
what the time is?
No, I have no idea.

538
00:26:10,120 --> 00:26:11,640
I haven't gotten a 10 minute
warning yet.

539
00:26:11,720 --> 00:26:12,800
So I think we're we're still
good to.

540
00:26:12,800 --> 00:26:14,200
Go.
OK, so you know that that's all

541
00:26:14,200 --> 00:26:16,160
I like to know is like where?
We're at and where it's going,

542
00:26:16,160 --> 00:26:18,080
you know, like kind of stuff
like that at one time.

543
00:26:18,080 --> 00:26:20,720
But now I don't.
It's just up in the air.

544
00:26:20,760 --> 00:26:23,720
That makes me.
That makes me want to like, look

545
00:26:23,720 --> 00:26:26,120
at a little more, 'cause I see
all these things here and I

546
00:26:26,120 --> 00:26:30,000
don't want to.
I don't want.

547
00:26:30,000 --> 00:26:32,080
To mess it up.
Seen when I was in college.

548
00:26:32,720 --> 00:26:34,600
I don't even know.
Wait when I was in the during

549
00:26:34,600 --> 00:26:36,560
the pandemic.
I don't think that there was

550
00:26:36,560 --> 00:26:40,760
ever a runtime that I could look
at when I was in a zoom meeting.

551
00:26:41,400 --> 00:26:46,880
I don't know listeners, if you
would like to e-mail us and let

552
00:26:46,880 --> 00:26:53,520
us know that there's a runtime
tab somewhere, that would be

553
00:26:53,800 --> 00:26:55,720
great.
But meeting.

554
00:26:55,800 --> 00:26:58,080
Information.
So I'm coming back.

555
00:26:58,080 --> 00:26:59,360
Interesting.
Yeah.

556
00:26:59,360 --> 00:27:02,040
What the?
The 19 or something like that,

557
00:27:02,840 --> 00:27:03,640
yeah.
What are we?

558
00:27:03,640 --> 00:27:05,040
What are we doing for Christmas?
What?

559
00:27:05,040 --> 00:27:08,400
What are we doing?
I don't know.

560
00:27:09,200 --> 00:27:11,960
What do you want?
To do I, I was already planning

561
00:27:11,960 --> 00:27:13,160
like what I was going to do next
year.

562
00:27:13,160 --> 00:27:17,160
No, I I got to go to North Pole.
Well, I thought you already

563
00:27:17,160 --> 00:27:18,560
booked that.
I thought that was already.

564
00:27:18,760 --> 00:27:20,720
Out.
No I'm it's sort of like I I'm

565
00:27:20,720 --> 00:27:25,800
I'm having I'm having sort of
trouble with agents I'm I'm on

566
00:27:25,800 --> 00:27:26,720
my I.
Can't have my third.

567
00:27:27,040 --> 00:27:28,720
Travel agent?
No.

568
00:27:28,720 --> 00:27:31,680
Well, I just give them a bunch
of stuff and I'm like and yeah,

569
00:27:31,680 --> 00:27:33,640
and and I'm cryptic and all that
kind of stuff.

570
00:27:33,640 --> 00:27:34,880
Well, I feel.
Like, that trip is really hard

571
00:27:35,240 --> 00:27:36,800
to plan for a travel agent,
right?

572
00:27:37,360 --> 00:27:40,240
Well, I sent them two people
that actually do it and I was in

573
00:27:40,240 --> 00:27:41,320
touch with them.
So.

574
00:27:41,760 --> 00:27:43,800
Well, it shouldn't.
It shouldn't be that big a deal.

575
00:27:43,800 --> 00:27:46,800
It's really going to be.
Yeah, it's going to be logistics

576
00:27:46,800 --> 00:27:49,320
of getting you there from LA,
Yeah.

577
00:27:49,440 --> 00:27:53,440
And meet me there from here.
We have to go to Norway and then

578
00:27:53,440 --> 00:27:57,040
we from Norway, then we go to
Corneo.

579
00:27:57,040 --> 00:27:59,200
I think it is.
We take a jet to there.

580
00:27:59,560 --> 00:28:03,320
And then from.
That's a camp that's 2 1/2 hours

581
00:28:03,320 --> 00:28:07,120
from the North Pole and then or
through by helicopter.

582
00:28:07,120 --> 00:28:08,880
And then we take a helicopter to
the North Pole.

583
00:28:08,880 --> 00:28:12,560
So it's a, it's a.
It's a very arduous, arduous,

584
00:28:14,000 --> 00:28:16,360
arduous a.
Good one.

585
00:28:17,920 --> 00:28:20,600
Something like that, you know
that's I.

586
00:28:20,600 --> 00:28:21,920
Mean.
That's what I think, Indonesia.

587
00:28:23,640 --> 00:28:25,560
Indonesia what?
No way on.

588
00:28:26,800 --> 00:28:30,160
No, I'm working with that one.
Oh, we have, there we go.

589
00:28:30,160 --> 00:28:31,560
There's a 10 minute warning
right there.

590
00:28:33,760 --> 00:28:36,680
OK, Yeah.
North Pole that's going to be

591
00:28:36,880 --> 00:28:38,520
that's going to be crazy.
Yeah.

592
00:28:38,520 --> 00:28:40,320
Is this worse than the Antarctic
1?

593
00:28:41,400 --> 00:28:43,840
What do you mean?
Flight Walker, yeah.

594
00:28:44,600 --> 00:28:46,280
No, no, no.
You had to go from.

595
00:28:46,280 --> 00:28:48,080
I mean, you went from LA.
You went to where?

596
00:28:48,960 --> 00:28:50,880
Where'd you go to?
My wife flew with you.

597
00:28:50,880 --> 00:28:52,040
That's when I was living there.
So.

598
00:28:52,480 --> 00:28:56,280
So I flew.
We flew from DC to Miami, Miami

599
00:28:56,440 --> 00:29:02,240
to Santiago right, Santiago to.
That was, that was 10 hours.

600
00:29:02,280 --> 00:29:04,920
Punto Renas to Antarctica that
way.

601
00:29:04,920 --> 00:29:09,720
And then, yeah, that was.
Then we went Punta Renas, then

602
00:29:09,720 --> 00:29:12,760
we landed at the base and it was
the Chilean air base there,

603
00:29:12,760 --> 00:29:15,920
right?
And then we and then we hopped

604
00:29:15,920 --> 00:29:20,280
in boats, river, whatever.
There's little zeppelins were.

605
00:29:20,520 --> 00:29:23,160
And they zoomed us.
Then they zoomed us out to the

606
00:29:23,160 --> 00:29:25,120
boat.
Then we and all of our luggage

607
00:29:25,120 --> 00:29:27,960
was there, and then we went.
We checked in and we looked at

608
00:29:27,960 --> 00:29:29,800
all our stuff and we found.
Out that we were all in

609
00:29:29,800 --> 00:29:35,880
shoeboxes, Shoeboxes I was.
So, and then what about the way

610
00:29:35,880 --> 00:29:38,560
back that was so funny when we
we pulled into the harbor?

611
00:29:39,520 --> 00:29:40,120
Yeah.
Then we pulled.

612
00:29:40,120 --> 00:29:44,000
Into the harbor and they're
like, OK, it's it's Tuesday and

613
00:29:44,040 --> 00:29:45,640
we're supposed to go out
tomorrow morning, but.

614
00:29:46,160 --> 00:29:48,880
It.
Seems like since we we all

615
00:29:48,880 --> 00:29:53,120
navigate by air, by sight down
there, 'cause there isn't any,

616
00:29:53,160 --> 00:29:54,960
all these towers and everything.
That's so funny.

617
00:29:54,960 --> 00:29:55,680
We don't.
Have any?

618
00:29:55,800 --> 00:29:57,240
That's the only place that.
That, he said.

619
00:29:57,240 --> 00:29:58,400
I don't wanna say.
That we don't.

620
00:29:58,400 --> 00:30:01,680
But there's another place.
We want what?

621
00:30:02,160 --> 00:30:03,960
I was just gonna say that's
probably not the only place that

622
00:30:03,960 --> 00:30:06,360
there's sight left in the world.
There's probably one other

623
00:30:06,360 --> 00:30:08,640
place.
Yeah, yeah, I'm sure like.

624
00:30:09,880 --> 00:30:13,000
I can't imagine.
I can't imagine just being able

625
00:30:13,000 --> 00:30:15,320
to land a plane by looking at
the ground.

626
00:30:16,040 --> 00:30:19,160
I'm looking at the ground.
Oh, I can barely drive some car

627
00:30:19,160 --> 00:30:21,200
and I can see.
Yeah.

628
00:30:21,840 --> 00:30:23,560
Wow.
That's it.

629
00:30:23,800 --> 00:30:25,640
I I mean, I gotta I I think
about that.

630
00:30:26,280 --> 00:30:27,720
And yeah, I.
Don't I?

631
00:30:29,680 --> 00:30:31,800
Don't think I've ever really
been scared on a flight yet.

632
00:30:32,200 --> 00:30:33,840
I've never been scared either.
I don't.

633
00:30:33,840 --> 00:30:36,640
I can't think of one time I've
been more scared in cars than

634
00:30:36,640 --> 00:30:39,040
I've been on planes.
Oh gosh, yes.

635
00:30:39,160 --> 00:30:40,600
Yeah.
Especially when when you're

636
00:30:40,600 --> 00:30:43,040
driving, yeah, it's.
Just yeah, you should be.

637
00:30:43,560 --> 00:30:45,720
But I mean.
Yeah, absolutely.

638
00:30:46,600 --> 00:30:48,440
I can't really.
I've never been scared or scared

639
00:30:48,440 --> 00:30:51,040
on a flight at all.
You ever see those videos on

640
00:30:51,080 --> 00:30:56,600
this turbulence world?
Head on, ran off the road, I

641
00:30:56,640 --> 00:30:59,000
mean, but I've never been in a
I'm, I'm truly in a car

642
00:30:59,000 --> 00:31:01,160
accident.
I'd be more scared of going

643
00:31:01,160 --> 00:31:02,880
underwater than being in a
plane.

644
00:31:03,000 --> 00:31:07,200
I got to tell you that if I was
in a submarine or something, I'd

645
00:31:07,200 --> 00:31:11,680
be scared of that.
I'd be more scared of the going

646
00:31:11,680 --> 00:31:14,200
underwater than turbulence on a
flight well.

647
00:31:16,040 --> 00:31:19,760
Where we should have been
scared, which we weren't, is if

648
00:31:19,760 --> 00:31:22,680
we'd have fallen off the boat in
yeah.

649
00:31:23,080 --> 00:31:24,320
But we're stupid.
That's the.

650
00:31:24,480 --> 00:31:26,640
Thing we're we're stupid but.
We're not dumb or something.

651
00:31:26,640 --> 00:31:28,600
Like that, Yeah, but we were
getting hammered at the bar.

652
00:31:28,600 --> 00:31:29,320
You.
Know.

653
00:31:30,640 --> 00:31:33,920
The wee hours of the morning and
I saw my first whale at 12 O

654
00:31:33,920 --> 00:31:36,040
seven.
Yeah, that was my gosh.

655
00:31:36,040 --> 00:31:39,680
At night when they kicked us
out, 'cause we, you know, we

656
00:31:39,680 --> 00:31:42,720
closed it.
I can't ever go on another

657
00:31:42,720 --> 00:31:47,160
cruise ever again.
It's just endless binge

658
00:31:47,160 --> 00:31:49,840
drinking.
Oh yeah, it's, it's for the.

659
00:31:51,280 --> 00:31:53,400
Did you see that new cruise ship
they just built?

660
00:31:53,920 --> 00:31:57,800
And I think it was the Emirates
and the freaking they've got

661
00:31:57,800 --> 00:32:02,240
these gigantic elevators, glass
elevators from the outside, and

662
00:32:02,240 --> 00:32:04,360
it's just crazy.
It's.

663
00:32:04,360 --> 00:32:06,640
It's like 20 stories when you
start with.

664
00:32:07,160 --> 00:32:11,240
The six things I was shown, God,
yeah, no, They built a brand new

665
00:32:11,240 --> 00:32:14,520
one and I was looking at it and
I was like, that's that's no

666
00:32:14,520 --> 00:32:16,920
carnival bruise right there.
Jeez, yeah.

667
00:32:17,200 --> 00:32:20,000
They had like a pool with all
the fountains and stuff in it

668
00:32:20,040 --> 00:32:23,000
and things like that.
And they got the 10 story rock

669
00:32:23,000 --> 00:32:24,960
climbing wall.
It does just feel like you're

670
00:32:25,000 --> 00:32:26,880
going to be in a shopping mall
on the sea, though.

671
00:32:26,880 --> 00:32:29,440
That's the problem.
Yeah, really does feel like

672
00:32:29,440 --> 00:32:32,280
that.
Well, I think that cool would be

673
00:32:32,960 --> 00:32:35,920
clay pigeons off the back.
Clay pigeon Oh, that would be

674
00:32:35,920 --> 00:32:38,160
really if there's if there's.
3000.

675
00:32:38,920 --> 00:32:41,360
They do golf balls or stuff.
That no.

676
00:32:41,720 --> 00:32:43,480
Fire degradable golf balls.
I thought they did.

677
00:32:43,960 --> 00:32:45,560
That well, they did that.
That's OK.

678
00:32:45,560 --> 00:32:46,320
But I've.
Heard that?

679
00:32:46,360 --> 00:32:48,000
Yeah.
Really.

680
00:32:48,080 --> 00:32:49,560
That they do biodegradable golf
balls?

681
00:32:49,560 --> 00:32:51,320
Yeah, I've heard that they melt
in the ocean.

682
00:32:51,320 --> 00:32:53,280
Yeah.
No, that's definitely something.

683
00:32:53,280 --> 00:32:54,920
I've definitely.
Could be ice.

684
00:32:56,200 --> 00:32:56,920
Could be ice.
Yeah.

685
00:32:57,040 --> 00:32:59,480
Hey, Aaron.
It could be Ice Man.

686
00:33:00,120 --> 00:33:04,160
Boy, how's clay pigeons better
than than golf balls in terms of

687
00:33:04,160 --> 00:33:05,960
clay?
Just dissolves because it's just

688
00:33:05,960 --> 00:33:07,640
clay.
What about the bullets, though,

689
00:33:07,680 --> 00:33:10,000
that you're shooting?
No, those don't.

690
00:33:10,000 --> 00:33:11,920
They're steel.
And steel's not.

691
00:33:11,920 --> 00:33:13,440
Man made.
It came out of the ground.

692
00:33:14,120 --> 00:33:15,360
Oh yeah, I guess you're right.
It's a bio.

693
00:33:16,280 --> 00:33:18,080
No, it's not.
It's what is it?

694
00:33:18,080 --> 00:33:21,760
Iron and ore and what else?
There's like three things in

695
00:33:21,760 --> 00:33:23,120
steel.
Yeah, yeah.

696
00:33:23,880 --> 00:33:26,120
Come on all you, all you
constituents out there.

697
00:33:26,120 --> 00:33:28,320
When you hear this, you got to
say he doesn't know what the

698
00:33:28,320 --> 00:33:30,320
heck makes steel up.
I don't think our question of

699
00:33:30,320 --> 00:33:33,480
the week is, is iron
biodegradable or is it not?

700
00:33:34,520 --> 00:33:35,440
Yeah.
Well it, Russ.

701
00:33:35,560 --> 00:33:38,880
You know I don't.
Think it and Steel gets a film

702
00:33:38,960 --> 00:33:40,320
on it.
No, it's.

703
00:33:40,320 --> 00:33:41,920
Aluminum's the one that takes
forever.

704
00:33:42,160 --> 00:33:46,000
But I think we're we're about at
our time here today, this week

705
00:33:46,000 --> 00:33:48,640
already.
Thank you so much for listening.

706
00:33:48,640 --> 00:33:51,720
We're loving everything that
you're giving to us and telling

707
00:33:51,760 --> 00:33:54,960
us and we might be back next
week.

708
00:33:54,960 --> 00:33:57,080
We'll do another one of these
next week and.

709
00:33:57,120 --> 00:33:59,120
Yeah, we got to get.
We got to get more into that.

710
00:33:59,120 --> 00:34:00,680
We got to get.
We're going to get our traction

711
00:34:00,680 --> 00:34:02,640
back, we promise.
We promise We're going to get

712
00:34:02,640 --> 00:34:05,360
our traction back.
But this one's going to be out

713
00:34:05,360 --> 00:34:09,400
on 12/5/2023 and we'll see you
next week.

714
00:34:09,480 --> 00:34:10,280
Thank you guys.
So.

715
00:34:10,280 --> 00:34:12,920
Party on, old people, We should
do a Christmas edition.

716
00:34:13,040 --> 00:34:14,520
Oh, we will do a Christmas
edition.

717
00:34:14,520 --> 00:34:16,040
Oh my God.
And watch out for that.

718
00:34:16,880 --> 00:34:18,159
New Year's is the one that'll
make it.

719
00:34:18,480 --> 00:34:20,199
Everybody will hang up on us.
Oh, everybody.

720
00:34:20,400 --> 00:34:23,280
'S gonna hang up.
We're gonna, we're gonna lose

721
00:34:23,280 --> 00:34:24,320
all our listeners.